Paljoey Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Gf called in the middle of the night 4 times after 2 months of no contact. I caught the bish cheatin and broke up with her. Wasn't very messy considering she wouldn't see my after I went to her house and she wasn't there after i was informed she cheated. Then she blocked me on everything out of nowhere two weeks later. I ignored her calls. It was three in the morning. I was awake but f her. I called the next day and she sent the call to voicemail. Then I sent her a text saying to delete my number. Right choice? I'm assuming she wanted a ride, guilt or for self affirmation that I'll jump when she calls. Next question I'm turning 21 next month and have a good career, I'm athletic. Should I look for a gf in one of the clubs in my town or opt on focusing on the girls at the gym or book store? Any suggestion I'm a young buck looking for advice btw my last gf was a solid 8/10 wondering if i got lucky or I can pull a better one with less of a cold heart. Link to post Share on other sites
Bastile Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 First off, block her from everything. You can always do better, just a matter of effort. No such thing as "getting lucky". You make your own luck. Do it all. Try everything and see what you like. At your age, I liked clubbing. These days, I prefer the street. Try everything. See what suits you best. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CptInsano Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Pretty much what Bastile said. Try every venue and don't rule things out prior to trying. The same may go for a type of woman. You may have an idea of what you want, but don't be afraid of being taught that somebody altogether different could be really good for you. (Hint: Don't look for a simple replacement for your previous gf.) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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