Keeping Items From Exes

[Aidel]

So me and my girlfriend moved into an apartment together at the beginning of this year. Things have been going great but something has come up recently that I haven't been aware of until now. She has a few items that exes have gotten for her displayed in the apartment.

 

There are some pictures and a few figurines that have been on display for some time now. I don't know what brought it up but I asked how she got them. That's when I learned a few of them were from men that she had dated. She said I would be out of line if I were concerned at all about it and that was that.

 

My question is would any of you be uneasy with this sort of thing or would I be a little too insecure if I did have a problem with it?

[guest569]

That's when I learned a few of them were from men that she had dated. She said I would be out of line if I were concerned at all about it and that was that.

 

My question is would any of you be uneasy with this sort of thing or would I be a little too insecure if I did have a problem with it?

 

I don't think I would mind if they are just ornaments or general household items. But I don't really understand her reaction. Did you give any indication that you were concerned?

[Shining One]

Each person gets to define what makes them insecure as an individual. Personally, it would not bother me. I have a few items (mostly nice, expensive shirts) from exes that I still make use of. It's bothered some of the women I date, but most didn't care.