X14Halo Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 (edited) What defines a romantic connection and can one help inspire it? Or is it just something that comes naturally that you can't control? I don't think I've ever had it honestly even though I've been out dating a bunch. I've been "friendly" to girls that I've liked and I've had a few nights of what I thought was a spark of romance but they always think that there is nothing there. How can I stop being so damn friendly and be more romantic so that I can hold onto a relationship? Edited November 24, 2014 by X14Halo Link to post Share on other sites
eye of the storm Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 A romantic connection is different for different people. Unfortunately, you kinda have to know your audience on this one. One of my friends is moonlight/roses/music. Another got teary eyed when she came home from a work trip and her husband had built a greenhouse. I hate to say it for me, its food and appreciating my contributions. And many men get caught up in the "friend-zone" fear. Since my divorce all the men I have dated started out as friends. We realized we enjoyed each others company and dated. And I am still friends with all of them even though we don't date anymore. Honesty, communication, and respect for each other. Be yourself, relax, and it will happen. Link to post Share on other sites
lovely-cards Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 well said... Link to post Share on other sites
Frank2thepoint Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Flirting, banter, genuine compliments, and wanting to get to know the person. Also sharing deep things about yourself at the right moment. This means showing vulnerability. It's not a magic bullet formula, but it's a guideline. Also, if a girl does not ask you questions, to try to get to know you, she is not interested at all. Don't even bother trying to build a connection with such girls. Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 It means she wants you to bang her. Link to post Share on other sites
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