Eighty_nine Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I'm sure this isn't the first time this has ever been asked here... but what's more of a must-have for you? I'm not talking about a very obese person with a beautiful face; I'm asking if you could have average body and beautiful face, or average face and awesome body- which would you choose? Granted I hope people here aren't so shallow that these are their only criteria in choosing a mate. Just curious! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Face, 100%. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 If it was a choice between the two, I care more about a beautiful face to look at than a perfect body. But as you pointed out, physical attributes aren't nearly as important to me as the more intangible qualities or things that cannot be seen with just our eyes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I suppose average face, awesome body. What I consider handsome is not the norm anyway. Another's average (or even "ugly") is probably my perfect. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I like average / average... Hot is too high maintenance. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Hollywood-Tourist Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Face for me first. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I suppose average face, awesome body. What I consider handsome is not the norm anyway. Another's average (or even "ugly") is probably my perfect. Agreed. Average face, awesome body. It seems I have unconventional definitions of beauty. Take Meryl Davis for example. I find her gorgeous and I think she looks elegant and graceful. Lauren Lapkus is another example. She's adorkable. Also, a person can put forth effort to attain an awesome body. Thus, having an awesome body can indicate dedication. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Body....Thats what they make paper bags for..... Relax....Im only kidding...been one of those kind of weeks... Truth told though, Id have to say body...I am a very physical person and like to be able to find common ground there... My guess is guys say body, women - face... TFY Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Agreed. Average face, awesome body. It seems I have unconventional definitions of beauty. Take Meryl Davis for example. I find her gorgeous and I think she looks elegant and graceful. Lauren Lapkus is another example. She's adorkable. Also, a person can put forth effort to attain an awesome body. Thus, having an awesome body can indicate dedication. Your choices have unusual looks so I'm feeling you on this one. I have a thing for noses. My current had a slightly crooked but decidedly broad nose. It's muah. Adrien Brody and Daniel Day Lewis? Got beak? You got me. Link to post Share on other sites
LoneIsland Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 For a long term woman I'd prefer a completely plain face with stunning body. This should keep the bitchiness down. For short term, stunning face and stunning body would be best. A further requirement is a stunning set of lips and I don't mean the set on her face. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
quidproquo89 Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 definitely a face man ha ha Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 As long as the face is average, I care about the body most. Though a great body for me can be a woman who could be 10-20 lbs overweight as long as she has large breasts. I seriously don't care if a woman has a flat stomach and I like love handles; they're fun to squeeze. Women should be soft. Link to post Share on other sites
writergal Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Face - the eyes are the first thing I look at. Average body is fine. You can always lose weight, but you can't lose ugly. If a guy scowls a lot and never smiles, that's ugly to me. Plus it means he probably doesn't have a sense of humor; and a guy with a perfect body who can't take a joke, is not attractive to me at all. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 There is no way I could chose. First off legs, long shapely legs, but being a short guy, many times that was one I had to live without. A Goldilocks body, not too short, not too tall, not too skinny, not too fat, and boobs the same. And she had to have a face I could kiss good morning to every day. Hair preferably dark, and brown eyes. I come from a family of blondes with blues eyes and they are my least favorite. So what did I marry. A strawberry blonde with blue eyes. But she had a figure, 5'10, legs and a face that was foldout material My current lady has it all, a grandma with a flat stomach and an hour glass figure, and a face I have been kissing many times each day for the past 19 years. Weight around 110, while the foldout material Ex is pushing 200 Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NJ123 Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 If I had to choose one or the other it's a pretty face over a nice body. But that being said, I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't have a body I don't find attractive. I don't mind a girl with some curves or a bit thin, but not obese. Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I am more flexible about face than body, within reason, of course. A pretty face can never overcome the aversion created by an unattractive body. A great body can overcome an average face, though. Luckily for me, I didn't have to make a choice. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ComingInHot Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 If I'm expected to be firm but soft under the wrapping because that is what most men seem to like j@cking off to (per playboy & penthouse...), the I guess I would like to find women's version of the 'hot guy' when I unwrap him. That'd be strong, hard & handsome. No six pack required though. He'd be at the gym more than with me... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 A further requirement is a stunning set of lips and I don't mean the set on her face. What defines "a stunning set of lips?" Big? Small? ?? Link to post Share on other sites
bastus Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 body , silhouette in darkness is really cool .. Link to post Share on other sites
LoneIsland Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 What defines "a stunning set of lips?" Big? Small? ?? Not big, not small, meaty, regular shaped - heart shaped for instance, but other shapes are good too. Less attractive is all wrinkled up. If the inner lips are not big enough to show through as is the case in young women, I don't find it appealing. What I find most disturbing is a fully grown woman with little of no inner lips. I believe this natural revulsing is to protect children. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Eighty_nine Posted October 1, 2014 Author Share Posted October 1, 2014 This thread is turning out quite interesting. Haha. as a woman I too care more about face; Although my last boyfriends scrawniness and terrible posture turned me off even though he had a nice face. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 Eyes first, shoulders second. Huge brown eyes, don't care about the rest of the face all that much. I'm with cerri, even. Good shoulders, not too fussed about the rest. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 Well the guy I am currently hankering for is no oil painting at all, he has a nose like King Kong, a weird mouth but he does have the most gorgeous grey eyes. His body isn't what I would call attractive as he is as skinny as a whippet with pins for legs and massive shoulders that are all out of proportion and not my "type" at all. I usually go for thighs and the face on pretty much all my exes is very pleasing on the eye Dark hair, blue eyes and chunky body... So I guess neither... To me he is amazing because he is older (my age) and still up for water fights, messing about and laughing. He is kind and gentle, he is fun and responsible all at the same time. He is an eclectic mix of all the positive things as well as being bit of a s47t sometimes... Thats why I am hooked on him. I am only taking quick looks at other men, I don't bother with a second... I have no desire at all for anyone else. If I fantasise its about him and his body and not anyone else... Never thought a skinny boy would be a turn on... Shame I can't have him! Better get back to the big boys instead...! Link to post Share on other sites
NYWoman Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 Body here. However first husband was short and skinny, he was a former bicycle rider and had great legs and a great butt, great smile, fantastic personality. Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 If I'm expected to be firm but soft under the wrapping because that is what most men seem to like j@cking off to (per playboy & penthouse...), the I guess I would like to find women's version of the 'hot guy' when I unwrap him. That'd be strong, hard & handsome. No six pack required though. He'd be at the gym more than with me... No, he'd just have to control his eating. Workout wise...it requires high effort, but not much time. Link to post Share on other sites
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