jayb1rd Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 First, please don't judge. I understand its not what most people would do, but it happened and I need somewhere to get it out in the open. I went for a vacation to an island where prostitution was legal and had sex with an escort. We saw each other every day I was there and exchanged emails/pin/facebook etc. to keep in touch. At first, we just said hey what's up and that was it. Fast forward a year and a half later and things have taken a turn. She has stated that she likes me and I her. I went to go see her again this weekend on the island and again we had a great time together but this time it was different. There were feelings that developed and she and I both feel like it was more than what we expected. We both would like to somehow make something work. Now, I know this may be impossible but I would like to make something work. Right now though my heart is in pain. Here is a girl who I like and who makes me feel like a million bucks. She also has stated I make her feel the same and she wants more, she wants something serious. A part of me thinks it can't workout and to end it before things get too serious. Another part things it can work out and if you don't try you will never know. I guess I just wanted to write about this and see what people had to say. I do not doubt that her feelings for me are not genuine at all. I have no doubt she genuinely likes me. If things keep going this way and feelings get stronger I don't know what we will do... Anyway, I am not sure if I am looking for advice or anything. I just wanted to get this off my chest and see what people had to say. I have feelings for an escort and I want to pursue the relationship. Right now my heart hurts and I am crying a lot since I got back because we had such an amazing time. It is kind of like a long distance relationship now... I am not quite emotionally invested though due to her profession but I can definitely see that I might be. Or, am I just feeling the effects of isolation after having such an intensely enjoyable time with someone? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 Oh boy. I suspect you are mistaking sex for love. Do you understand that this woman is paid to make you feel good? There's a name for what is going on. It's called the GirlFriend experience. She may be the one in a billion prostitutes with a heart of gold who is genuine but it's more likely that she is a con artist, telling you what you want to hear in the hopes of soliciting even more money from you. You do understand that she has sex with other people besides you for money, right? You get that? If you aren't a troll, I'm going to assume you are very niave & inexperienced. This is NOT a good idea. In fact it's a catagorically BAD idea. Have sex with her. Pay her. Enjoy your time together. Heck enjoy the fantasy that she is weaving around you through the e-mails but don't believe a word of it. It's not real. Link to post Share on other sites
TheGuard13 Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 This sounds an awful lot like Miss Saigon... Link to post Share on other sites
Useless Endeavors Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 (edited) ............................ Edited April 23, 2014 by Useless Endeavors Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts