SadNLonley Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 ok, this is really just to vent on how much of a jerk this guy I know is..... We met at a casino 4 years ago. Texted back n forth since. During the small breakups in my relationship, I'd go out with this guy. Well since my breakup months ago, i started accepting dates with this guy. Early January while we were having lunch he must have started feeling guilty and spilled all the beans to me. Here is the story!!! He met this gal 2 yrs ago. Started dating. Couple months into it he advised how important it was to have kids. He is in his 40's and it needed to happen soon, so if she didnt want kids, they'd have to go separate ways. I guess she agreed. Right off the bat they started invitro. He said they only sleep together maybe 1 time a week. She must have decided she didnt want kids until they got married so she moved in (still only sleeping together once a week) and I guess started planning a wedding. Still no pregnancy. He even told me that he mentioned to her that it didnt seem right that they weren't trying to good ole fashion way to get pregnant. He says she is a nice girl and that he loves her, but their sex life is blah and he needs more than that. Im guessing this is where I come in the picture and why he continued to contact me at least every month. When I finally gave in Dec/Jan it must have made him a happy camper. Well, once he told me this story I went home and wrote him this nice email on how much of an ass he was to be contacting and sleeping with me while he was engaged to someone else and to never contact me again. I just found out the he got married 4 days after that. ONLY 4 freakin days. I found out by searching google for an announcement. Ha yep it was there. How on earth can someone be so shallow to do that. I feel for the girl because she was clueless. He was texting me almost all day and all night through Dec/Jan. I just do not understand some people. Link to post Share on other sites
snappytomcat Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 he sounds like an ass,the best thing you can do is live a happy,healthy life,dont give this jerk another thought,yes lots of jerks out there,hopefully his new wife will find out what a jerk he is,and kick him to the curb,or maybe he will see the error in his ways,and grow up,and become a good husband she deserves good luck to you Link to post Share on other sites
DorkBreakfast Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Guy is trying to set up franchises. No need for this parasite in your life anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SadNLonley Posted April 18, 2014 Author Share Posted April 18, 2014 Luckily for me, I never really wanted anything from him relationship wise. I almost feel like i owe it to the poor girl to warn her, but maybe now that he is MARRIED things between them will be great. All I can do is shake my head at the fact he's such a jerk. That he has no respect for his relationship and hooking up a week before the wedding is unbelievable to me. Maybe I was his bachelor party. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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