LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > General > General Relationship Discussion

Old enough to sleep with but too young to date


General Relationship Discussion Everything else under the sun. Not sure where to post? This is the place!

Old 4th January 2013, 4:38 PM   #1
Established Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Posts: 70
Old enough to sleep with but too young to date

This has been bugging me for some time now.

I'm finding I'm attracting women who are older than I am by 3-8 years. I have no problem with this because they seem to have their priorities in line, and I want that in a woman.

I've known this gal for about 4 years. We used to work together 4 years ago and got to know each other as work acquaintances. We were both in serious relationships at the time, but I found her attractive and we both had a similar sense of humor. I leave that job and run into her a couple years later at a bar to catch up.

Fast forward to present day...I find out she's 7 years older than me. I'm 27 and she's 34. Both of our relationships went sour and we've been consoling each other through sarcasm and alcohol therapy for almost 5 months. Sexual tension follows and we both go for it only to chicken out later. We're both very dirty minded people so this came as a complete suprise. I think it was just too early for both of us to try to get involved physically.

Eventually we have at it and it was great. I got a little rough by accident due to drinking too much and not realizing it. She ended up loving it and I did too. We hang out some more and everything happens again.

We start talking and she says she hates being single and I ask what she thinks our fiasco is about. I teasingly tell her I think we're just using each other and she laughs and tells me I'm too young to date, but on the flip side, I feel that from a maturity standpoint we're pretty even keeled. I kid her that she's raping me and we exchange a couple more jabs. We're both very sarcastic. She flat out tells me that she's been waiting for that tension to end for 3 years.

I've been hanging out with her older friends and we all have a good time on a regular basis. So my question is to anyone who's been in a similar situation, if you're old enough to hang out with and sleep with, why is dating an issue?
jdids247 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 5th January 2013, 10:27 AM   #2
rys
Established Member
 
rys's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Philippines
Posts: 123
I dont know how to say this gently but you might be a boytoy for her.
rys is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
If you LOOK young, should you date young? irc333 Dating 14 1st October 2012 7:16 PM
Good enough to sleep with but not date? zanesfan Dating 62 12th June 2012 1:17 PM
sleep with him on second date: bad move? shadowplay Dating 64 10th September 2010 5:29 PM
would you date/sleep with your ex's friend? ManinGrey General Relationship Discussion 0 15th February 2007 1:32 PM
How Long Should You Date Before You Sleep Together Lilly Dating 27 16th December 2005 10:32 PM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 3:58 AM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2013 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.