NVO Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 So in the past weeks I received breadcrumbs from my ex gf. I healed properly and I'm able to think with a clear mind, but I could not help noticing that these breadcrumbs are somewhat holding me back. I sometimes wonder what she is trying to say and I want to settle this for once and for all. But for my next move, I need some guidance from you guys. I don't want to be friends, that will simply not work out for me. I do not want to block her at this point, I reserve the blocking as my last way out. So I want to tell her that right now she has to make a decision: 1. We go out for a lunch / drink / whatever, and talk things through and see where it gets us from there; 2. She needs to stop contacting me from now on. Any right ways to do this? Pro's & con's? Any tips?
WhatYouWantToHear Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Sounds like your asking for bread crumbs. And externalizing. It's not on her to stop contacting you, its on you not to acknowledge that contact and to not respond to it.
Author NVO Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 Sounds like your asking for bread crumbs. And externalizing. It's not on her to stop contacting you, its on you not to acknowledge that contact and to not respond to it. Good one! You are absolutely right! Thanks.
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