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Old 2nd June 2015, 6:08 AM   #16
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Her huge mistake was Chad Worthington, the guy she dropped you like a cold chicken liver to fool around with.

I seriously doubt she's going to admit that, as it makes her look bad.

Ask yourself, do you want to be someone's option or someone's priority? Do you think someone that could do this to a person they allege to "worry about" would do it again?

This is a happy ending, but not in the way you suggest. She left you for another guy and broke your heart. You've suffered the toughest part and can now move on. Her coming back is just a confirmation that she has a lot of growing up to do. Let that admission of weakness of character give you the boost you need to forge ahead, without her. If you don't, most likely you're going to be telling your story here in LS over again.
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Old 2nd June 2015, 10:40 AM   #17
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Thanks for the time for sharing what has happened. I guess for some of us this is what we dream of. But like everyone says....unless they contact you with solid direction of getting back or trying again, don't accept the breadcrumbs.

Also it's the old once your ready to move on or have. Hey Presto !

Best wishes for next week, either way it goes.
Not really. She sent out feeler text for two days and he pressed her to just say what she wanted. Those feeler text have been called breadcrumbs here.
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Old 2nd June 2015, 10:42 AM   #18
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Her huge mistake was Chad Worthington, the guy she dropped you like a cold chicken liver to fool around with.

I seriously doubt she's going to admit that, as it makes her look bad.

Ask yourself, do you want to be someone's option or someone's priority? Do you think someone that could do this to a person they allege to "worry about" would do it again?

This is a happy ending, but not in the way you suggest. She left you for another guy and broke your heart. You've suffered the toughest part and can now move on. Her coming back is just a confirmation that she has a lot of growing up to do. Let that admission of weakness of character give you the boost you need to forge ahead, without her. If you don't, most likely you're going to be telling your story here in LS over again.
Uhhh they are back together now. In real life relationships are not perfect because the people in them are not perfect. To make it last means give take compromise and forgiveness.
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