youdunsay Posted May 9, 2017 Share Posted May 9, 2017 How do you erase memories of potential guys who came across briefly in your life but you didn't have a relationship with? Four or five years ago, I met a charming, suave man but we didn't end up together due to several reasons. Recently I came to know a man twenty years my senior. He gave off that very same charm as that guy I used to know but I messed up the all-sweet connection between us because I feel it's wrong or society forbids me to date someone much older and there'll be no happy-ending for either of us. Thing is, I can't get him off my mind. We didn't really date per se, and I believe women are all over him because he's successful and very good looking for his age. I don't want to continue this habitual feelings of regret. How can I change the way I think and put myself out there to meet more equally great, potential men? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 9, 2017 Share Posted May 9, 2017 I don't let myself get attached that easily. It's actually harder for me to remember these "missed connections" because there wasn't much there to begin with. If I do think about those almost guys its usually fondly but in a superficial way -- gee he was cute; wonder what happened to him? At most I think I saw one cute guy who had potential. That means there are more just like him out there. Link to post Share on other sites
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