lostsoul6486 Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 It has been a while since I've posted on here. I'm in a better place now than I was just a few short weeks ago. I still think about her quite a bit, at least once a day, but I don't have that tremendous sadness and anger that seemed to follow me around everywhere I went. Anyway, I had this dream last night that we were together. We were vacationing somewhere and everything was perfect. I was so happy just to be with her. Next thing I know, we're at her place and she's crying. I'm just standing there while she's weeping and begging me to take her back. I told her that I didn't trust her anymore and that I could never take her back because she cheated. I said I was in a good place now that I was over her. She just kept crying and my eyes teared up as I watched her. It was almost like a memory of what happened when I took her back during the summer, except in the dream I was strong enough to say no to her. Just as I turned to leave, she lunged at me to try and hug me, but I woke up and the dream was over. It felt so real and my eyes were watery right when I woke up. I've read that sometimes your subconscious mind tries to work issues out that your conscious mind can't through your dreams. I don't know how true that is, but I've been pretty down today because she's been on my mind a lot Link to post Share on other sites
Kaya Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Ah yes, the good old dreams - most mornings I'm thankful to wake up and not remember if I dreamt about him or not. I did have one this past weekend though, where we were back together and he said to me "I broke my own heart by breaking up with you" - I had to catch myself, as I almost started to think that this it was some kind of sign I think this it true: I've read that sometimes your subconscious mind tries to work issues out that your conscious mind can't through your dreams. I don't know how true that is, but I've been pretty down today because she's been on my mind a lot It's just our mind trying to work out residual feelings / emotions / confusion / unfulfilled desires that come along with a breakup. Keep going, glad that you're in a better place, it will continue to get better! Link to post Share on other sites
SycamoreCircle Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 The subconscious leads the conscious. Take it as a sign that your psyche is working its way towards healing itself. Link to post Share on other sites
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