24th November 2011, 5:13 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
For me it has been more than a year that my ex-bf and I broke-up and a year of no contact.
Like you I also cut all contact.
I couldn't bear the way he treated me as a friend and acted like we didn't belong together or any other reason.
Yes, I also still miss him and even thought about him on my pillow before I went to sleep.
But this time, it didn't hurt quite as much, I accepted that he was not with me anymore.
He has another girl that is maybe comforting him.
Secretly, I hope he thinks about me too.
So basically, it's normal that you're feeling that way Confused.
If our exes were still together with us, would be miss them like we miss them now ?
We want what we can't have. And now some other woman has them.
Okay, your ex is married and mine might be thinking about marrying also.
But I'm prepared for that day.
We decided to let them go and yes we do feel a lot of guilt.
But that's part of growing and making choices.
" Il faut battre le fer quand il est chaud. "
" If you have to keep wondering where you stand with someone, perhaps it's time to stop standing & start walking. "