69ers Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 So my girlfriend for the last 8 years broke up with me. She said she doesn't love me anymore and wants to focus more on her career. We were fine and then one week she just stops contacting me and starts being distant. We have had no contact for a couple weeks now. Do you guys think I should contact her soon or just give up? Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 Give up, it's over! I think the only way she might want you back in the future, is after she tries some other guys that treat her bad, and then understand that you're the right one. But why would you take her back on those circumstances? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sdraw108 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 Agreed, it's time to move on. It's a horrible thing to hear and to have to face up to, but the sooner you do face up, the sooner you'll come out of the other end and be able to be happy again and meet someone new. Link to post Share on other sites
Octavian8 Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 So sorry this happened man, it's brutal I know, especially after that long. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do either, it's out of your hands. You gotta let her go and go hard no contact, heal yourself, and eventually find someone who appreciates you. If you've been a good guy to her, then it's her loss. She likely was feeling like that for a while and didn't communicate effectively with you to work on the problem, or didn't want to. That's what happened to me anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
rubyjuly Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 Are you really young? Just wondering bc 8 yrs is a long time to still just be hanging as bf/gf... Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 Your best course is no contact Block her on everything. Don't be shocked when you find out about her boyfriend. That's what this is all about. She moved on you'd best do the same Link to post Share on other sites
Highndry Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 Sorry to hear it. It's almost always another guy. Don't contact her at all, just be strong and go on your own way. Link to post Share on other sites
rickwman Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I think it's important to understand what is going on with her. Be honest with one another since trust and knowing each others expectations are very important to a long lasting, secure relationship. I'll pray that you both will be honest about how you each feel. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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