Vanity1 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 I read stories about dumpees wanting to talk to their ex and can't stand them ignoring them. It's a blessing , would you rather them string you along, make you believe things that are not true, give you false hope...and you'll believe anything to feed ur addiction . 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 It's usually not the X that's the problem. It's the inability to cut all contact and move on that's the issue. An X has zero control over anyone unless it's allowed. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 People who still follow what they're doing imagine everything is aimed at them and that gives them false hope. I kind of had to keep seeing my exes unless I wanted to move (which one of them did finally do). I resolved my feelings for the one who did move before he moved, but only because the next one was right on his heels. I shudder to think what I'd learn if I had a peephole into the other one's life, even though he's married with kids. The goal is to stop having the intense feelings and accept it wasn't a match, of course, but this seems hard for everyone including myself. Link to post Share on other sites
MarvelFan1 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 I broke up with my ex and we have been separated for 3 months. After 1 month I broke NC and mentioned about reconciling but after a sleep on it and some words from my Mum, I called it off. I think a moment of loneliness and weakness got the better of me. After that I went NC, removed her off FB and sent no more messages, she sent the last one. I haven't heard a peep from her since. But that's because she thinks I will go back to her and she wants that power, and believe me, if she messaged me asked for me back I would do in a heartbeat. I broke up with her because I didn't love her anymore after how she treated me, but I'm sad and lonely and would do anything to end up back with her, even though in my heart, I know it wouldn't work long term. My mind is so screwed. She is doing me a favour, big time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 We all too often hold on to what we WANT it to be instead of what it was. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
AT15 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 We all too often hold on to what we WANT it to be instead of what it was. Ain't that the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
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