Bo34 Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 So i wsa wondering if there is any truth or fact to this? I hear some ppl say the shorter u were with ur GF/BF the worse the odds that the dumper comes back to try and get back together... What is the definition of short term or long term? I was in a LDR so it complicates matters more for me, but it was a little over a year. Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 I think the length of separation does more Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bo34 Posted August 29, 2015 Author Share Posted August 29, 2015 I think the length of separation does more The length of the seperation does what more? Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Based on what I've read about people's stories on this forum, I'd have to say NO. Some people lose their BF/GF after a few weeks, others a few months, many a few years, and some a couple of decades. One common thread seems to be that the chances of long-term reconciliation (I mean re-kindling) are slim to just a little above none. It happens, but not as much as you might think. Sorry. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bo34 Posted August 29, 2015 Author Share Posted August 29, 2015 Based on what I've read about people's stories on this forum, I'd have to say NO. Some people lose their BF/GF after a few weeks, others a few months, many a few years, and some a couple of decades. One common thread seems to be that the chances of long-term reconciliation (I mean re-kindling) are slim to just a little above none. It happens, but not as much as you might think. Sorry. Wow. So depressing to hear.... :( Link to post Share on other sites
Gus Grimly Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 One common thread seems to be that the chances of long-term reconciliation (I mean re-kindling) are slim to just a little above none. ^That's the hard truth. Even if people do reconcile it doesn't last very long, they're just trying to evade the inevitable. Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon_Dude Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 What I don't understand is how a person can trust someone who once left them. I'd be on red alert if I ever took an ex back! Wouldn't believe a f*cking thing she said and would never be able to forget the way she hurt me. No thanks. Start fresh with someone new. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
drseuss Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Pretty much every girl I have ever dated has tried to reconcile with me sometime in the future. The key to this? Self improvement. Instead of sitting around the house and sulking all day, get out and live your life. When your ex decides to snoop in on your life one day down the road, something most of them do, she will see how great things are for you. Did you ever reconile with any of them ? Link to post Share on other sites
aloneinaz Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 What I don't understand is how a person can trust someone who once left them. I'd be on red alert if I ever took an ex back! Wouldn't believe a f*cking thing she said and would never be able to forget the way she hurt me. No thanks. Start fresh with someone new. So true. I think that's where the expression "walking around on egg shells" came from. You never know when the next pink slip is coming. Link to post Share on other sites
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