iceteaguy Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Hi all a couple of days ago my ex told me "we should just be friends" after a 4 year long distance relationship. To be honest it didnt feel right for awhile and the signs were there and I tried breaking up with her once and she cried like crazy and called like crazy and I just cave in. My break up issue was because we dont really talk much and she seems to busy with her school. That was a couple months ago and well a couple of days ago she said lets be friends. I was surprised and didnt want it to end but I didnt fight for her as I knew it was the best thing. The love was gone. To be honest I dont think I really loved her and I dont want to get back with her at all. So why do I still feel this lonely pain? Yesterday when she told me she wanted to be friends my body was kind of shocked and I felt like I was having a little panic attack and just wanted to get out of the house, why did I feel this way if in my mind I kind of wanted to break up with her? I also let me self cry last night, think I forced myself to listen to some sad songs as part of the grieving process I told her that I didnt want to have any contact for a few months we both agreed it was for the best. The no contact is for me (not using it to get her back) yet I still feel lost and confused Today is Day 1 of NC Link to post Share on other sites
DexterLS Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 I think you are feeling this way because SHE was the one ending it. You never thought it would be her and yet there she did it. It would have been a little different if you were the one to end it. Long-distance relationships are hard to maintain and if you don't feel any love towards her, I would suggest severing all ties immediately and respectfully. Oh, and brace yourself for the possibility of her having met someone there.. Link to post Share on other sites
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