Drspell12 Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 So my ex texted me after one year and a half from NC. Anyone here uses whatsapp? she did it in there, at 4am. The messaged just said "Hi". I saw it next morning and couldn't help but reply to her because it seemed damn weird to me. I replied: "???" And in that same day she then sent me: "oh, sorry, I can't remember sending that first message". I was like... What the heck. I didn't replied to that last message, ad proceeded to delete the conversation and block her. IMO it seems almost impossible to me to send something to someone on whatsapp and then say you can't remember... Was this an accident, or what do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 I mean, if it wasn't, she'll try again. If it was, she won't. No need to psychoanalyze it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
KBarletta Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 So it happened at 4 a.m. and she doesn't remember it? Is it possible she was drunk? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 So it happened at 4 a.m. and she doesn't remember it? Is it possible she was drunk? A likely scenario. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Yep! I agree. Drunk text, call, snapchat...whatever. Ignore it and write it off. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Drspell12 Posted December 22, 2014 Author Share Posted December 22, 2014 Yep, it is possible. What haunts me is... Why (after so muuuuuuch time) keep the number of a person you claim to not want to do anything with? Weird. But thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Yep, it is possible. What haunts me is... Why (after so muuuuuuch time) keep the number of a person you claim to not want to do anything with? Weird. But thanks! Hell, I got some people in my phones contact list, I forgot who they are. I'm terrible about cleaning that stuff out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Yep, it is possible. What haunts me is... Why (after so muuuuuuch time) keep the number of a person you claim to not want to do anything with? Weird. But thanks! I don't know your intentions, if you miss her or what, if it was a terrible breakup, or if it was an amiable cut, But JUST from the information you posted, and if I had to make a guess, I'd say she was drunk, or simply backpeddling from her text. I see one of two scenarios, take it as you will, The first being she's drunk and lonely, and looking for a thrill, The second is a bit dicey, but maybe she missed you a bit, and after your response, her ego took a little bit of a hit. So her response, in a way, is to cover her attempt at fishing for a compliment, or getting you to contact her again. Like I said before, this is simply conjecture and theories I concluded, please be aware that the 9 lines you posted is information seriously diluted. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Elle1975 Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 You handled it well though, with you "???", followed by silence and block. Probably was drunk, saw your number, texted a dumb "hi". 2 Link to post Share on other sites
KBarletta Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Yep, it is possible. What haunts me is... Why (after so muuuuuuch time) keep the number of a person you claim to not want to do anything with? Weird. But thanks! Personallly I keep my wife's number in my phone so that when she calls I know exactly who it is and I won't accidentally answer it. Not saying that's her motive for keeping yours, but everyone has their reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 How was the breakup? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FortunateSon Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 Personallly I keep my wife's number in my phone so that when she calls I know exactly who it is and I won't accidentally answer it. Not saying that's her motive for keeping yours, but everyone has their reasons. This is also what I have done. I have my most recent long-term ex's number in my phone but changed her name to "do not answer" 3 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 It was an intentional breadcrumb. And you fell for it. Don't respond. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Ieris Posted December 23, 2014 Share Posted December 23, 2014 This is also what I have done. I have my most recent long-term ex's number in my phone but changed her name to "do not answer" Haha I do that as well.. Some as "don't even think about it!" I just laugh when I see it but I've never been tempted so that's cool 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 23, 2014 Share Posted December 23, 2014 Delete, block, forget 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 23, 2014 Share Posted December 23, 2014 This is also what I have done. I have my most recent long-term ex's number in my phone but changed her name to "do not answer" What you did there is close to genius Link to post Share on other sites
Author Drspell12 Posted December 23, 2014 Author Share Posted December 23, 2014 She broke up with me because she was "no longer feeling it". Then, a few months after that she told me that she broke up with me because she saw her ex. She said "oh, but I never cheated on you, I just saw him but it made me feel guilty because I still had anger towards him and it wasn't fair for you". I tried to clear things, she said she still loved me but that she knew she made things bad, bla bla, then she said she hated me and that was it. I mean I wasn't the perfect guy, but at least I was honest with her and upfront about the things so we could solve them and have a respectful relationship. And yes. Now this.... **** it. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 23, 2014 Share Posted December 23, 2014 Yep, it is possible. What haunts me is... Why (after so muuuuuuch time) keep the number of a person you claim to not want to do anything with? Weird. But thanks! I have numbers from people I haven't talked to in years. Sometimes I'll see a name in my contacts and truly forget who they were. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Drspell12 Posted December 23, 2014 Author Share Posted December 23, 2014 Oh, I forgot to mention there was a time when she called to my house 6 times. She denied she did it. And given the circumstances of our break up and her instability I think it wasn't a mistake. Who knows, anyways, thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
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