xobeautyxoo Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Me and my ex boyfriend reunited today and we both go to the same college. I bumped into him during my lunch break. We are on pretty good terms and he is still nice to me and talks to me like a friend and today I saw him at lunch with a whole bunch of his friends that were mostly girls. I asked if I can sit next to him and he declined while another girl sat next him instead. Why wouldn't he want me sitting next to him? Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Because you are his ex. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
oberkeat Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 You asked this question already today. The answer is still the same. He's doesn't want you around. Move on to someone who does. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 He wants to sit next to someone who won't ask him where his head is at and can instead enjoy his lunch rather than choke on it. Let it go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 Because he is moving on. If I were you I would too. Link to post Share on other sites
WhatIsLove2014 Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 Seems like you don't understand rejection because this seems like the same as your other post. These "two" or "one" people/person are being ridiculously obvious about being disinterested/rejecting you. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 I saw him at lunch with a whole bunch of his friends that were mostly girls. I asked if I can sit next to him and he declined while another girl sat next him instead. Why wouldn't he want me sitting next to him? He doesn't want the girls thinking he's with you and he doesn't want to sit next to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 Not to pile on, but because it's not appropriate for you to be sitting next to him. You are exes; exes don't sit next to each other. He's looking to move forward and you sucking around him doesn't allow him to do that and it creates stress in his life. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 Going forward the next time you see him around campus, say hi & move on quickly. You need to give him the impression that you no longer have time for him. It's the only thing you can do to save face. When you asked to sit next to him, what he heard was "OMG I still love you & I want you back." Since he doesn't want that, of course he said no. Also since the other people he was with were mostly girls, I bet he is working on trying to date one of them & your presence is cramping his style, making him more annoyed that you are there in the 1st place. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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