Kamila Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Hey all, I'm a bit confused, after 4 years break-up, my ex-boyfriend still tries to contact me. We were together from 2008 till 2010. We lived 1 hour from each other. After 2 years I wanted more from him, commitment, a place of our own, children... But he didn't want it, he said he had other priorities. My dreams were crushed, I had a really hard dealing with someone that just played pretend. After a year of break-up, he wanted to catch up for coffee whatever, I didn't want to. I wanted to work on myself, my self-esteem, who i was and what i wanted ... On FB, i saw he had a new girl, he bought a house with her, so yeah, I was quite torn up, so i deleted him from FB. I also had a thing (we didn't sleep with each other) with a coworker, self-esteem was hitting rock bottom when he just wanted a fling with me, nothing serious. That was 2 years ago. So now my ex of 4 years ago sends me an e-mail with 'hey' as title. I don't want to open it. I'm happy with my life right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary Oak Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Then don't open it.... it is your choice... Link to post Share on other sites
Priv Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Well, I think you should open it. Just because not knowing is going to eat at you. And has done so already or you would not make a thread about it. But once read, whatever the message is, not do anything about it. You are happy now. Stay happy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tbisb74 Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 I went for a walk the other day, and on the pavement, a short distance from my house, was a small carrier bag. It had something in it. I gingerly picked it up and put it in the nearest bin. I never looked in it, I never examined it, but somehow, I just knew it contained dog excrement. I didn't need to open it in order to know that the best and safest place for it, was a bin. Ok? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kamila Posted July 24, 2014 Author Share Posted July 24, 2014 I'll treat it like Pandora's Box. Not opening it. I'll delete the message without looking at its content. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Uh I think you may be off the mark here... Ive also had emails headed "Hey"... it is spam he's probably been hacked but if you open it you might have a free ipad or something lol x 2 Link to post Share on other sites
redbaron005 Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Glad you're happy. Personally, I would take a look at the email, plus you're not obligated to respond. Life is short, why not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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