TheDovic Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Hey guys, havent been on in a while but just needed a wee rant! So she dumped me ten months ago and we stayed in contact for most of that time but I cut contact in Feb and deleted her number and blocked her from my FB. Anyway her best friend has started messagin me on fb lookin info then my ex text me on Wed and Thurs with a stupid excuse but kept apologisin for annoying me. I didnt respond and nor will I cos I simply cant go through the pain of getting my hopes up again and subsequently getting crushed by her! In saying that it stirred up some old feelings and Ive been a bit depressed this last few days and have really missed her. Just want someone to tell me its still ok to get upset ten months on. I wont break and talk to her though... this much I know Ps were together 4 years, had a house together and were engaged Link to post Share on other sites
Balzac Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Hey it happens. Just don't let it drag on and don't low her or her friend to invade your privacy. Hang in there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 Hey Dovic if you don't want too, you don't have too! I think people on here expect roses and sunshine when they get contact. The one time an ex contacted me he begged to meet up. Then stood me up, blamed the whole breakup on me (he wanted to be single) then verbally abused me by text. Contact isn't always good. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ShaneSchommer Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 Its funny but the saying is true when it comes to woman... they ALWAYS come back, even after ten months. I cant really tell you what to do but do what feels right. I will say though do not expect anything at all because when you expect something thats when you will get hurt. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 Its funny but the saying is true when it comes to woman... they ALWAYS come back, even after ten months. I cant really tell you what to do but do what feels right. I will say though do not expect anything at all because when you expect something thats when you will get hurt. ....no we don't...some of us run the hell away and don't look back. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 Hey guys, havent been on in a while but just needed a wee rant! So she dumped me ten months ago and we stayed in contact for most of that time but I cut contact in Feb and deleted her number and blocked her from my FB. Anyway her best friend has started messagin me on fb lookin info then my ex text me on Wed and Thurs with a stupid excuse but kept apologisin for annoying me. I didnt respond and nor will I cos I simply cant go through the pain of getting my hopes up again and subsequently getting crushed by her! In saying that it stirred up some old feelings and Ive been a bit depressed this last few days and have really missed her. Just want someone to tell me its still ok to get upset ten months on. I wont break and talk to her though... this much I know Ps were together 4 years, had a house together and were engaged How you feel is how you feel---and it's okay. Not liking that there is a nosey friend all up in your business==ignore any of her friends/block them if you have to. you were together a long time and need healing time and space. not sure what your ex's agenda is, but it's sure not helping you. She was the one who dumped you...why do dumpers do this??? She wants to make sure you are crying into your coffee over her and singing Red Sails in the Sunset to her 8 x 10 glossy. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TheDovic Posted May 30, 2012 Author Share Posted May 30, 2012 Thanks for the replies guys. Just needed to speak to someone but feelin a bit better now! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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