Zabs Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 :confused:I was just thinking...good or bad we all learn something from everyone that we cross paths with in life. What have you learnt from your break/ing up? I have learnt that even though I see things in a pretty black and white way, many people dont. Ie; I am 30+ and have only just realised if you have a male friend, even if that friend is attached or attracted to THEIR same sex, the insecurity that can cause between partners is pretty powerful. :eek:It is because of the intimacy and the trust we share in platonic relationships that can cause this feeling for our significant others...and had I realised this much sooner...things wouldn't have been half as bad. I think I have also become a resilient and patient person going through this process and I don't feel half as bad now it's where it is now.:bunny: What about you guys? Zabs xx Link to post Share on other sites
mike588 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Not to get involved with someone fresh out of a relationship, a rebound. I did and am paying for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zabs Posted October 4, 2011 Author Share Posted October 4, 2011 Ok... was that a good or bad lesson? What else did you learn about yourself as a result? Zabs xx Link to post Share on other sites
69ways Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 That women are f..... u. and hope I never love again... Sorry but have no experience with men so cant comment lol Link to post Share on other sites
Rorschach64 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I have learned that relationships, girls, or anyone for that matter are nice things to have but aren't a need. So therefore with the recognition I do not need these things/people they can no longer have the power over me and I will do only things for ME because I WANT to do it. Also if a girl doesn't like how I act, behave, dress, smell, dance, and handle stuff then they can get the hell out that isn't my problem it is THEIRS, because I know I am freakin' king awesome Link to post Share on other sites
Mack05 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I have learned that relationships, girls, or anyone for that matter are nice things to have but aren't a need. So therefore with the recognition I do not need these things/people they can no longer have the power over me and I will do only things for ME because I WANT to do it. Also if a girl doesn't like how I act, behave, dress, smell, dance, and handle stuff then they can get the hell out that isn't my problem it is THEIRS, because I know I am freakin' king awesome As Justin Trousersnake once said bah da bah ba dah...I'm loving it! Link to post Share on other sites
mike588 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Ok... was that a good or bad lesson? What else did you learn about yourself as a result? Zabs xx A bad lesson. I knew she still had some feelings towards her ex but I assumed that after I "supposedly made her so happy" and she said she loved me I though she had worked thru it, WRONG! What I learned about myself is to NEVER date anyone fresh out of a relationship,,, if you do go very, very, very slow! Link to post Share on other sites
lalalandman Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I just learned that learnt is actually a word. Link to post Share on other sites
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