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Iv'e been friends with this girl for about 7-8 months, I never made a move because she had a boyfriend. She eventually broke up with her boyfriend about a couple of months ago.

 

I started texting her on Snapchat. I don't have the exact text but this is an outline of what the conversation was like. I asked hey how was your fourth? And she responded back with, it was good, I did so and so with my family how was yours? We talked for a little bit more and then I asked her if she wanted to go bowling sometime.

 

she texted back saying she couldn't because she was leaving for her hometown later that week and will be back when school starts back up again in August. I know she wasn't lying to me because she posted about being back in town on Snapchat. I replied with okay, when you're back in town, let me know if you want to meet up. She replied with okay, but I should warn you, i'm really good at bowling. I said some sort of bowling joke afterwards, and then she did laugh emotes.

 

This was all a week ago and I haven't texted her since.

 

 

The thing is that I don't know if she's trying to write me off or not. Because I know a lot of girls say they're too busy as an excuse, but she actually was going back to her hometown.

 

 

Do you think that there is potential interest or not?

 

Should I continue on texting her frequently while she's gone and make the attraction build? Or should I wait to text her again when it's August?

 

 

Because i'm probably going to ask her out again in mid to late August.

 

What do you think I should do?

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No way to know, so just wait. I assume she can text you if she opts to. I mean, don't play out your relationship via text long distance or it will certainly be hard to find things to talk about in person when she comes back. Sounds like she likes bowling, so that's good.

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this very very important GG7 - DONT CONTACT HER IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM UNTIL SHE GETS BACK TO SCHOOL!!!

 

you got a good chance buddy but play it cool

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Should I continue on texting her frequently while she's gone and make the attraction build?

No, no and no.

 

 

She brushed you off once which is not a good sign (if she wanted to Im sure she could have met you once before she left town 'later in the week') but she seems open to the possibility to meet up when she's back, so just go with the flow.

 

 

Carry on with life, if she messages you then sure reply, but you don't want to be messaging her daily and become her texting buddy. Your aim is to be romantically involved with her not become her friend.

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No, no and no.

 

 

She brushed you off once which is not a good sign (if she wanted to Im sure she could have met you once before she left town 'later in the week') but she seems open to the possibility to meet up when she's back, so just go with the flow.

 

 

Carry on with life, if she messages you then sure reply, but you don't want to be messaging her daily and become her texting buddy. Your aim is to be romantically involved with her not become her friend.

 

 

 

I should see her again in the middle of August as she is in one of my organizations, but if not I will text her late August and ask her out then.

 

I don't think she will say yes, nobody does.

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If she's interested, she'll make it known but give it some time and don't text frequently. If you do, you'll come across as clingly and it's game over.

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I don't think she will say yes, nobody does.

 

that's right GG7, stay positive :)

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