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Old 12th March 2019, 2:10 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by chillii View Post
Doesn't really matter what you are or anyone else , if the other one isn't keen , they just aren't and changing yourself attempting to create some keenness on their part is just gonna end up with something fake even if it does help and that won't last anyway.
Even my 17yr old daughter will tell you that.
lt's pretty simple basically, none of them have been the right girl for you.
Thatís what I was thinking
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Old 2nd April 2019, 12:43 AM   #17
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For me looking at myself its like this.
If I like a woman romantically. It never works out. There is some sort of obstacle in the way. Like her being attached and I find out afterwards.

If I don't care for some reason. Thats when a woman is more likely to make a move on me when it happens.

My future GF/Wife. Is only going to happen when I let go of trying to reach out to a woman romantically. So for me its a matter of time. I am personable and warm.
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