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Old 25th February 2019, 5:58 PM   #1
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Question texting a girl for the 1st time

So, I really like a girl (from her appearance and from what ai've seen, i think our characters match). I dont know her personally and she doesnt know me either. Should Ibtext her on messenger or will it be awkward? i dont have any common friends with her. any advice?
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Old 26th February 2019, 9:34 AM   #2
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Ask her an open ended question that cannot be responded to by two words, that simultaneously lets you know something about her. Easy to do. The important thing in the beginning is to be light hearted and a little bit funny.
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Old 26th February 2019, 9:52 AM   #3
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Where have you seen her? Is she a neighbor? a classmate? A regular customer? If she doesn't know you, and you somehow found her contact info, your message will be deleted and your number blocked. A sincere explanation letter from a stranger might get through, a flirty letter from a stranger is just weird spam.
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