HiCrunchy Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 I mean besides tinder that has the hookup reputation, is it bad to state ur looking for a relationship or does it look desperate/negative on other OLD sites? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 in life women are looking for relationships so mentioning it in your OLD profile is no problem Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 l wondered that back when in my short old days. As a guy l dunno , most of the women said they were looking for a serious long term thing, which was what l was looking for too so nope not at all. l couldn't really work out why but as a guy, it sort of seemed saying that myself somehow caused some negative thing with the women though. l might've been imagining it not sure but it did seem that way. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 26, 2019 Share Posted January 26, 2019 No it doesn't look desperate. It's a statement of fact. I will (or should) weed out people who are not seeking the same. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 I don't think so. I'm talking to a guy on Zoosk who's profile says that. It was one of the reasons I decided to answer his IM...the main reason was because he sent me an actual message and not a heart or flower or canned question. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 In my experience it is a turn on or at least an attention greener for women who are also looking for relationships. If it is a turn off it is for women who are not interest in relationships and honestly, that's a good thing for you. Link to post Share on other sites
edgygirl Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 No, does not look desperate at all. I only swipe right on men who are clearly looking for a relationship as that's also what I want. Actually that's the first info I look for. Link to post Share on other sites
caveman621 Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Not if it's what you're looking for! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Fekenaws Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 I'm obviously in the minority here, but I find the "I'm looking for a relationship" line to be a turn-off, and I am a relationship kind of man myself. Why? Because it sets up unreasonably high expectations from the get-go, I want to date for several months before committing to an exclusive relationship. I want to see what you're about, get to know you, see how the sex is, and if it all still clicks after a few months then I'll push for a relationship. Dating should be about the journey, not the destination. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Dating should be about the journey, not the destination. Not necessarily. If you're young and want marriage and a family someday, dating has a purpose.....to find a mate. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SevenCity Posted January 29, 2019 Share Posted January 29, 2019 Most guys don’t read the profiles. Those looking for just sex likely won’t tell you and won’t be turned away by it. Not a turn off but sort of pointless for a woman to state. Link to post Share on other sites
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