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I have an account on zoosk and tinder, but I don't get any replies back. I just have a picture of my car on my profile, but at least it's something right? I'm too nervous putting a picture of my face.

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Well... there's your problem. Nobody wants to date your car, they want to date you, thus they want to see you.

 

If you are too nervous to put a picture of yourself up, then you're too nervous to date on-line.

 

How many (male) profiles do you see with no picture of the applicant?? Few to none!!

 

If you are not going to put up a picture, you are wasting your time and/or money to be on a dating site.

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Sorry but laughing ass off here.

Ummm, you what , just have a picture of your car, your kidding right. ???

 

Ahhh, l think we've solved the problem gents, that was an easy one :bunny:

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I would never respond to a person who does not have a picture on his profile.

 

I don't care what kind of car you drive. I want to see your smile.

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I would never respond to a person who does not have a picture on his profile.

 

I don't care what kind of car you drive. I want to see your smile.

 

Ditto. I don't want to see pictures of motorcycles, cars, mountain vistas, full or empty beer glasses, kids/grandkids. Need to see the person before sending a 'like'.

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I don't even like pictures of a man with a car. Sounds shallow and I give zero f-s on what car someone has.

 

Profiles I swipe left on: men with cars/motorcycles, men holding fish, men with knocked out tigers, group pictures (which one are you???), bro pics with booze, kids (total lack of respect for their children), pics of landscape (wth???), or pics displaying any sign of wealth. Trying too hard and shallow. Good luck in attracting shallow golddiggers!

 

Put a couple of pics up. A face one and a body one. Just do it. Everyone does.

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Haha ok I understand you don't feel comfortable posting a picture. There's no other way. Maybe try meeting women in public? That works well for me. You should try it. And I once had a profile with no pictures, I still got a handful of men interested. But really not much happens online with no photo.

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The only woman who wants to date another car is, a female car.

 

 

You need to sell yourself to the hooomins mate.

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The only woman who wants to date another car is, a female car.

 

 

You need to sell yourself to the hooomins mate.

Then why do these obnoxious guys in their football uniforms get replies? but not a guy with his car?
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Is it a picture of you WITH your car or a picture of your car?

 

 

 

And...truly...pictures of cars (or with cars) are cliche.

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Then why do these obnoxious guys in their football uniforms get replies? but not a guy with his car?

 

Is the picture you with/in your car, or literally just your car, without you?

 

And if the latter, honestly, what were you expecting to happen?

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I have an account on zoosk and tinder, but I don't get any replies back. I just have a picture of my car on my profile, but at least it's something right? I'm too nervous putting a picture of my face.

If it's one of those silly Hondas or Neons with a stereo system larger than the car and it sounds like most of them do - like my mother's vacuum cleaner - then I can see why you're not getting any responses.

 

If, however, it's a Mercedes, you have a fighting chance. And the higher the model number, the hotter the girl you're going to get.

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But the lower the quality she will be.

ps, l really strained myself putting that so politely .

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Then why do these obnoxious guys in their football uniforms get replies? but not a guy with his car?

 

Hi Brad, I will try to explain.

 

First, those guys are IN their football uniforms right? Not just a picture of some gear laying in a field? Its a picture of THEM.

 

And now - what does a football uniform say? Its says that they are athletic. Successful enough to make the cut and get on the team beating out other men.

 

It shows that they have an interest or hobby, that they have a certain level of discipline and can conform enough to society to be an effective team member.

 

Not everyone thinks that they are "obnoxious". I am not a fan of football, but I recognize it has certain merits. My husband was on a football team once upon a time, and I have to admit, the physique he had from playing was quite attractive.

 

I would never respond to a picture of a car. I don't date cars, I date humans. Now, if you had pictures of you, AND a picture of a unique car, like maybe you had a track car and picture of you out at the raceway. Or a vintage car and a picture of you at a car show - I would find those interesting. I like cars, I like going to the track or meets - so I would possibly into that.

 

But a picture of JUST a car? No... what kind of car anyway?

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I have an account on zoosk and tinder, but I don't get any replies back. I just have a picture of my car on my profile, but at least it's something right? I'm too nervous putting a picture of my face.

 

If a guy doesn't put a picture of his face up, I will not reply. A picture of your car? What does that say about you? Put a nice picture up of yourself, and smile widely! That's what people respond to.

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I'm surprised you're even getting matches to be honest. I never swipe right on women who don't show their face, that's not how Tinder works... Maybe that's shallow, but it's not fair when you get to judge other people on their looks, then in turn don't want to show yourself...

 

You're not getting replies because the women don't know what you look like, you could be anyone. People have preferences, they don't want to start a conversation with someone they're not attracted to (and "no picture" usually is a bad sign)

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When I see a profile with no pic or a "google pic", I think cheater trying not to get caught.

 

Why else would someone hide their face on tinder?

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