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In Search Of... Having a hard time forming friendships or finding companions, lovers, or associates? Is someone pursuing an unwelcome relationship with you? Talk about your experiences here.

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Old 4th November 2017, 10:05 AM   #16
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Originally Posted by batjokes92 View Post
I check his blog every night, I get jealous when I see that his ex is liking his posts, his ex who he loves more than me, his ex who was able to change his life, the woman who was able to fix him.. I'm comparing myself to her. I notice she is checking my blog once a week even though I blocked her. I feel like an idiot for growing such deep and insane feelings for him, for coming between them. I feel so unlovable considering I've never had a relationship and this was the closest I've got to obtaining one.

I put on a happy face during the day in front of my family but at night I just think about him and I get so lonely. I don't really have any friends. They all live far away now. I'm feeling scared of the future, scared of men, scared of new people and I can't get out of this negative feeling.
I used to be embroiled into a relationship where I had been a backup. Now I am in kind of a similar situation like you do -- long distance, him being hung up with ex-girlfriend. The rational state of mind rings a bell of possible repeat in history. My take is to let it go and let it flow. If we would end up be together, great. If we don't, so be it. What's your take on this?
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