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LookAtThisPOst

This happened just recently. Met a woman on OK Cupid and started talking to her and I got her phone # pretty quickly this time. We talked on a phone for a bit, then we actually scheduled a date for Sat. night a 7 pm for a specific named venue. So...the plans were firmed, no questioning that.

 

Then about 2 days before the date, she texts me and says that her boss dropped the bomb on her and said that he/she needed her to travel to the other side of the state to perform a job related tax. She said she may have to take a rain check on the dinner.

 

I said, "Okay, sure would you like to reschedule?"

 

She said, "No, I still plan on having dinner with you that night, but I'm not sure how soon I'll be back...it shouldn't take all day."'

 

And I was like "Okay, cool."

 

After we stopped texting, I thought I don't think I was entirely sure she was clear on whether she wanted to "take a rain check" on that or not, or would I need to wait on how things go with her on the day she works overtime? I kind of think she contradicted herself.

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WaitingForBardot

I would assume, based on what you wrote, that she is still planning to have your date as originally scheduled; she was just warning you that it might start later than you originally planned. When/if she actually cancels would be the time to reschedule.

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