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what does it mean when a girl looks at you all the time...

but when you talk to her...like hi you look pretty today..she says nothing and makes a weird face..like a "your lame.." kind of face...either its playing hard to get or she really thinks im lame LOL. but then why does she look?

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Because "hi you look pretty" is lame. Do you even know her? Not that matters, it's not what to do in either case. Unless you know how to pull compliments off on women, just don't.

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LOL sign language...and yea i can pull off compliments on girls..but she doesnt speak english..but i didnt care..i figured atleast saying something would break the ice. or atleast get a smile..i just dont get why she continues to look at me.. im not ugly and have had many pretty girls like me. but im confused

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If she was interested, regardless of what you said, which was just fine, I think, she wouldn't make a face. Sounds like she's not interested. I mean, even basic politeness would require at least a "thank you."

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yes there are even prettier girls around near her that look and are polite and more obvious with signals.but i liked her for some reason....but i dont know why she STILL looks at me even after i tried to talk to her....makes no sense

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Perhaps she's dumb. Did you try ASL?
Geez, make an effort. what language does she speak? find out how to ask her what her name is, or if she wants to go to lunch. Or maybe your zipper is down at work, or she's never seen a guy who wears a rug. Could it be something about your appearance?
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what does it mean when a girl looks at you all the time...

but when you talk to her...like hi you look pretty today..she says nothing and makes a weird face..like a "your lame.." kind of face...either its playing hard to get or she really thinks im lame LOL. but then why does she look?

Well, it takes two to tango. Perhaps she's looking at you because you're looking at her.

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If she doesn't speak English ... that's a pretty good reason why she's not talking to you. If you speak English, that is.

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Lol! No i dont wear a wig. I know im not ugly at all. I have had many pretty girls. All the other girls seem to like me. But im not cocky. I always try to look at both sides of things. So while i want to say i could get her at the same time I dnt like to get my hopes. She speaks spanish. She was looking at me all the time. Then i was tired of it...saw her looking at me 1 day so i waved to her and she looked surprised and waved back. Then we continued that for a few days. Then one day i asked her to teach me Spanish and she said "im still learning english" is what i made out from what she said . Then i asked her name and gave her mine and shook her hand. She seemd like she was in a hurry. Then a couple days later is when i went up to her and said she looked pretty and she gave me a weird look. So either shes nit interested or thinks ik an idiot because she already told me she doesnt soeak english to well. But i figured she would atleast give a smile or try to say something. I havent looked at her or spoke to her since. But she still looks at me. Maybe its because i look at her idk. Wtfffff

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She speaks spanish.

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Then one day i asked her to teach me Spanish and she said "im still learning english" is what i made out from what she said .

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Then a couple days later is when i went up to her and said she looked pretty and she gave me a weird look. So either shes nit interested or thinks ik an idiot because she already told me she doesnt soeak english to well.

 

Dude... You're answering your own question.

 

She barely understood you. Weird look = "I don't know what you're saying." If she didn't understand you then how can you expect a response? You may as well go try ordering a McDouble in Klingon.

 

She may not be thinking that you're an idiot, but if you're going to act like *your* words are going to magically get past a language barrier... :rolleyes:

 

If you really like her, then make an effort to learn Spanish on your own. That would probably impress her.

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So an update. I stopped looking at her for a few days to see if she would too and she did the same. I think she is shy. But today i waited for her and i said "excuseeeeee me hey you dont say hi to me anymore :)????" And she walked right over to my car and was smiling. I then said okay put your number in my phone. She looked around and said "oh my god oh my god". And i said..what are you scared?? She then took my phone out of my hands and put her number in my phone. Its really her number too. So i dont know maybe she was playing dumb about not speaking english. But why would she do that? Shes scared of guys trying to talk to her for the wrong reasons just to get with her?

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So an update. I stopped looking at her for a few days to see if she would too and she did the same. I think she is shy. But today i waited for her and i said "excuseeeeee me hey you dont say hi to me anymore :)????" And she walked right over to my car and was smiling. I then said okay put your number in my phone. She looked around and said "oh my god oh my god". And i said..what are you scared?? She then took my phone out of my hands and put her number in my phone. Its really her number too. So i dont know maybe she was playing dumb about not speaking english. But why would she do that? Shes scared of guys trying to talk to her for the wrong reasons just to get with her?

 

 

Does she have her own car, does she need a ride home? Ask her if she would like a ride home. Google this for a Spanish translation.

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I work 3rd shift and she works second. So im coming in when shes leaving. Any ideas on what i should do with her. Take her to get soke drinks or just go for a drive. I think she would appreciate anything. She seems like she just hangs with herself

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