scubasteve Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 So I'm talking to a new girl, we hit it off. She has issues, she's very shy, has no friends, very self concious on how she looks . Very low confidence. Doesn't have a cell phone. We mostly talk on skype, snd today she messages me telling me her late crashed, but it shows she's still online on skype, and she will rarely come on but won't come on. Tells me it will be 3 or 4 months till sge has a new laptop saved up. So now im here weither or not to continue to pursue her. I know im not planning on waiting 3 or 4 months. That's just crazy. Should I just distance my self? Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 She's either got serious money drama and a non-expiring connection, or bull**** drama. You can take it from there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jacob_Duluoz Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 No cell phone? Whaaaa What do you like about this girl? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 She has walls around her, and she's building on them, not looking to demolish them. Sorry, but you're not her nurse or counsellor. Let those guys deal with this, as eventually they actually might have to. You? Walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 Do you want to be her BF or her therapist? She needs the latter, not the former. Romantic relationships are not fixer-up projects. Flip houses or become a therapist if you want to rehabilitate something Link to post Share on other sites
clam Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 She's an odd duck. Steer clear. Link to post Share on other sites
Author scubasteve Posted July 23, 2015 Author Share Posted July 23, 2015 I would like to be her boyfriend, but I can't fix her up.. everything I try to do and she tells at me because she doesn't want to do it, due to her being self concious Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 You've got all the replies you need. Nothing more needs saying, really..... Link to post Share on other sites
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