HD93 Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 So I met this girl yesterday on Tinder. Hopefully you are know the concept of it, but it's essentially a dating app. So we became a match, and within seconds of it she said hello. We texted for a good 3-4 hours last night and she sounded really keen. Said that she rarely swipes positively to any guys on the app (1 in 150 or so) and said that she was glad that we matched. Shared quite a bit and I'm pretty sure we both found each other really interesting. Added each other on Facebook just before we went to bed. I was hoping she'd initiate conversation sometime during the day, but I ended up doing it and we talked briefly but due to the time of day we were both busy I'd assume. So I had to initiate contact again on Facebook tonight and because I had to initiate it again, I thought that she isn't really keen on me anymore, but as soon as I contacted we had a big conversation, with quick replies. She didn't reply to my last message (apparently hasn't looked at it yet which is quite odd). So it confuses me. I know it's only been less than a day, and I know she initiated contact when we matched yesterday but is it normal that I have to be the one initiating? She sounds really keen to talk to me when I've started, but I can't tell if she's actually interested in me or not. Last night, she sounded definitely keen. She's a little bit more laid back today, but she's still quite open about stuff (like saying she doesn't think she's ever kissed a stranger, and that the cheating we see on TV is shocking). Any thoughts? Or am I just being a bit naive? Link to post Share on other sites
kolleamm Posted August 22, 2014 Share Posted August 22, 2014 If you really like this girl just flat out tell her, otherwise what is going to happen is she is going to get bored of the conversations you are having since it is really still in the friend stage. Tell her how beautiful she is and that you really like her. How do I know this will work? Because that's how me and my girlfriend got together. Tell her tonight. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted August 22, 2014 Share Posted August 22, 2014 Stop over-thinking it and ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HD93 Posted August 22, 2014 Author Share Posted August 22, 2014 Very well. Tonight I shall do it. Cheers guys. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 22, 2014 Share Posted August 22, 2014 Most people are busy with work or school and there's good times and bad times. You just need to ask her when is the best time to contact her so that when you do, she's not trying to work. And you need to not demand more time than she's got to give. Not everyone likes that much chat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HD93 Posted August 23, 2014 Author Share Posted August 23, 2014 OK so we're going on a date This Tuesday, we're going canoeing and then maybe some food after. I look forward to it. Now, I've never gone on a date with someone that I'm not actually in a relationship with. Do I continue to talk to her on Facebook until the date? Or do I not say anything until then? Sorry, I'm actually a bit clueless 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kolleamm Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 OK so we're going on a date This Tuesday, we're going canoeing and then maybe some food after. I look forward to it. Now, I've never gone on a date with someone that I'm not actually in a relationship with. Do I continue to talk to her on Facebook until the date? Or do I not say anything until then? Sorry, I'm actually a bit clueless Talk to her as much as possible! Being silent is childish and will only ruin your connection with her. If you see her online message her! But remember the "a message for a message" rule otherwise she could get greedy. Anyhow talk to her whenever. Good luck man Link to post Share on other sites
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