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I'm starting to wonder what I'm doing wrong here or what I'm doing to attract and end up with women that seem to want to take a giant **** on me from 30,000ft. Seriously though I seem to pick one bad one after the other and the thing is they all come across as nice, sweet, intelligent and appear to have themselves together. Then I'm like, this one seems good and I'm wrong!

 

 

I'm in my early 30's I go to the gym a few times every week. I'm hardly a body builder but I'm in shape and lean. I have a career, decent pay, own my own house, have a nice new car, have all my own hair and teeth too! I still take classes from time to time to expand my education base and move up the ladder. Yet I seem incapable of finding a woman that isn't wanting to use me for something. It isn't money as I don't dish that out.. maybe it's the free food, cuddling and sex lol? Or maybe it's the internet age where women want to just date 5 guys at the same time even if one of them is stupid enough to say lets me exclusive.

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Well where are you meeting these women? It could be the places you're going tend to attract this type of woman, so changing where you hang out might help. Also how old are these women? If they're very young then many of them (though there are exceptions) aren't going to want anything serious, so enjoying the freebies you're offering works for them. If you want something serious then maybe seeing women in their late 20s and up will be a better fit for you.

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Well where are you meeting these women? It could be the places you're going tend to attract this type of woman, so changing where you hang out might help. Also how old are these women? If they're very young then many of them (though there are exceptions) aren't going to want anything serious, so enjoying the freebies you're offering works for them. If you want something serious then maybe seeing women in their late 20s and up will be a better fit for you.

I tend to aim for my own age group which is late 20's and early 30's. I understand younger women are not quite relationship material so I tend to avoid where possible. I've tried online, I've tried bars, I've tried though friends, I almost tried a blood sacrifice lol. See the thing is on paper these women appear perfectly fine. Well educated, good jobs, live in nice areas etc. Even when we agree to be exclusive to see where it goes.. It's like the exclusive part never registered in their brains. Maybe they hope to find better after this one or better after the next one.

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I tend to aim for my own age group which is late 20's and early 30's. I understand younger women are not quite relationship material so I tend to avoid where possible. I've tried online, I've tried bars, I've tried though friends, I almost tried a blood sacrifice lol. See the thing is on paper these women appear perfectly fine. Well educated, good jobs, live in nice areas etc. Even when we agree to be exclusive to see where it goes.. It's like the exclusive part never registered in their brains. Maybe they hope to find better after this one or better after the next one.

 

Ok now this is helpful to know. I'm in your age range and want something serious and you know where every available chick I know like myself is? Volunteering, live music shows, film festivals, wine tastings, food festivals, comedy clubs, cultural events, art gallery exhibits, museums, theater, etc. Bars just aren't on the top of the list because sitting around drinking while gross guys try to talk to us isn't fun. The only time I ever go to a bar is when a friend is depressed/angry and shouldn't drink alone or if they're hosting an open mic night. Surely at least a few of those things happen regularly in your area =)

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If you say you have a decent body, then your best change of strategy would be to meet one in different places as mentioned before me. If you can still fine tune your body I'd say try that first.

 

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Ok now this is helpful to know. I'm in your age range and want something serious and you know where every available chick I know like myself is? Volunteering, live music shows, film festivals, wine tastings, food festivals, comedy clubs, cultural events, art gallery exhibits, museums, theater, etc. Bars just aren't on the top of the list because sitting around drinking while gross guys try to talk to us isn't fun. The only time I ever go to a bar is when a friend is depressed/angry and shouldn't drink alone or if they're hosting an open mic night. Surely at least a few of those things happen regularly in your area =)

Yes I've tried a few of these thing before but never quite found the right lady. I met some nice people, met a really clingy lady once LOL.

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