Lysssa Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 I'm 21, attractive, have quite a few things I'm good at, I'm intelligent, and am already the creative director of a small business. Why am I single? I go out with guys and they are all relatively nice.... but then they start to get weird. They call every hour, they tell me they love me in 2 days, they talk about having children.... Or there's the other option.... A meat head that is using the same lines on me that he is on some dumb bimbo he's been screwing around with. I have a very hard time finding someone on my level and when I do I fall head over heels for them and then they end up just kind of drifting out of my life. What the hell is going on? Link to post Share on other sites
Leegh Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 I think you have not met the right person yet. I have had the same things happen, where a guy that I meet calls 4 or 5 times a night, then it dwindles down to zilch after a few dates, (naturally just about the time that I start liking him). I think in general guys fall in love faster than women, but have a harder time sustaining it. I am sorry to say with a lot of guys (not all guys) they make promises, talk about the future, etc., then don't back it up with any real actions. They talk before they think. Possibly if you play hard to get, not impossible to get, but for example, if a guy texts you, wait a good length of time to reply. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamcha Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I think you have not met the right person yet. I have had the same things happen, where a guy that I meet calls 4 or 5 times a night, then it dwindles down to zilch after a few dates, (naturally just about the time that I start liking him). I think in general guys fall in love faster than women, but have a harder time sustaining it. I am sorry to say with a lot of guys (not all guys) they make promises, talk about the future, etc., then don't back it up with any real actions. They talk before they think. Possibly if you play hard to get, not impossible to get, but for example, if a guy texts you, wait a good length of time to reply.Don't encourage her to play games. That's only going to attract, well, players (as well as other dishonest dudes). It's okay if you don't get back to someone's text immediately (I usually don't because I'm busy doing other things), but to do it just to get a rise outta someone is just manipulative and wrong. As for the answer to the OP's question: tough to say. I would say you should be honest with the guys you like and do what it takes to keep them around while still maintaining your own self. Easier said than done, I s'pose. Link to post Share on other sites
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