Sun Devil Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I keep hearing stories about guys with no relationship experience in their 30s or 40s. I do not want to be like that so I am improving myself. However, if impproving myself does not work and I still am single in my 30s' then I will buy a wife from a 3rd world country. I know that this does not involve love, but if I am single for that long, then I will know that love does not exist. I see this as a better alternative to using hookers for life since I would be able to start a family. Have any of you guys considered it or is there a good reason not to do this and live life single? Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 You would be preying on someone that is desperate enough to get out of their situation that they will agree to be with someone they don't even know for the rest of their life. I'll also point out that not all of these women are even willing participants, it's human trafficking. 11 Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 You would be preying on someone that is desperate enough to get out of their situation that they will agree to be with someone they don't even know for the rest of their life. I'll also point out that not all of these women are even willing participants, it's human trafficking. Then wouldn't that be helping them out? (As long as the woman isn't being trafficked). You could also just as easily say that the woman would be preying on a guy who is in an unfotunate situation. Personally, as long as she isn't being traffiked, I just see it as a mutual agreement between two consenting adults, not as one 'preying' on the other. Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 Then wouldn't that be helping them out? (As long as the woman isn't being trafficked). You'd be helping an organization that has caused countless women to become physically and sexually abused. I'd also like to know how you plan on differentiating between willing and non-willing women. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 These women aren't all "trafficked"...you've been watching too much "Taken" and watching previews of "Taken 2". Now human trafficking is a huge issue and problem in the world far more than people realize, especially in our cushy conservative countries where we solve problems by pretending they don't exist in the first place. However, realistically all this guy needs to do is visit his local 2nd/3rd world Asian country and he'll be hitched before he can say Goldilocks in filipino. She might try and bring her whole family to the country, that's to be expected...he's an anchor, but she'll do "any ting he want" to make him guy happy...treat em like a king. So there you go Sun Devil, there is hope for you! 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 These women aren't all "trafficked"...you've been watching too much "Taken" and watching previews of "Taken 2". Now human trafficking is a huge issue and problem in the world far more than people realize, especially in our cushy conservative countries where we solve problems by pretending they don't exist in the first place. However, realistically all this guy needs to do is visit his local 2nd/3rd world Asian country and he'll be hitched before he can say Goldilocks in filipino. She might try and bring her whole family to the country, that's to be expected...he's an anchor, but she'll do "any ting he want" to make him guy happy...treat em like a king. So there you go Sun Devil, there is hope for you! Speaking from experience? Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 These women aren't all "trafficked"...you've been watching too much "Taken" and watching previews of "Taken 2". Now human trafficking is a huge issue and problem in the world far more than people realize, especially in our cushy conservative countries where we solve problems by pretending they don't exist in the first place. However, realistically all this guy needs to do is visit his local 2nd/3rd world Asian country and he'll be hitched before he can say Goldilocks in filipino. She might try and bring her whole family to the country, that's to be expected...he's an anchor, but she'll do "any ting he want" to make him guy happy...treat em like a king. So there you go Sun Devil, there is hope for you! I was actually going to propose that -- going to Eastern Europe or Asia and finding someone. I didn't say that they were all being trafficked. However, mail order bride agencies do deal with human traffickers. When you "buy" a woman (which, being said, makes me sick), you are paying a brokerage fee that will profit an agency that is engaging in extremely unethical behaviour. Some agencies have even gone far enough to say that ordering a MOB is like getting someone to cook and clean for you for a lower long-term price than a maid. Plus they'll have sex with you. Moreover, nearly all of these MOB websites display women as sexual objects. To me, it's not justifiable and there is nothing right about it. But to each his/her own. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 8, 2012 Author Share Posted October 8, 2012 I would rather buy a wife that cooks and cleans than live single without a family. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 Speaking from experience? Pffft!..that may hold true for my first three wives, however now I'm stepping it up and looking for a fourth in Australia! O.o 3 Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 These women aren't all "trafficked"...you've been watching too much "Taken" and watching previews of "Taken 2". Now human trafficking is a huge issue and problem in the world far more than people realize, especially in our cushy conservative countries where we solve problems by pretending they don't exist in the first place. However, realistically all this guy needs to do is visit his local 2nd/3rd world Asian country and he'll be hitched before he can say Goldilocks in filipino. She might try and bring her whole family to the country, that's to be expected...he's an anchor, but she'll do "any ting he want" to make him guy happy...treat em like a king. So there you go Sun Devil, there is hope for you! Actually, it isn't really a bad idea. Because they will leave you in a few yrs once they have established citizenship. And, as long as you have a solid pre-nup, you should be able to just forget them & do it all over again with a newer younger model. Just don't have kids with them. Because then you will be screwed. I suggest a vasectomy because they will also probably cheat on you & claim you are the father. At least this is how it went down with every guy I heard of that married a woman from the orient. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
El Brujo Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I keep hearing stories about guys with no relationship experience in their 30s or 40s. I do not want to be like that so I am improving myself. However, if impproving myself does not work and I still am single in my 30s' then I will buy a wife from a 3rd world country. I know that this does not involve love, but if I am single for that long, then I will know that love does not exist. I see this as a better alternative to using hookers for life since I would be able to start a family. Have any of you guys considered it or is there a good reason not to do this and live life single? I wouldn't want to buy a wife, but I'd be the first in line to adopt a female clone. I've been called a monster, a Nazi, and worse because I think human cloning is a great idea... the dating service industry would crash if we had cloned partners. Most single non-clone women would be out of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
xdahliax Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I wouldn't want to buy a wife, but I'd be the first in line to adopt a female clone. I've been called a monster, a Nazi, and worse because I think human cloning is a great idea... the dating service industry would crash if we had cloned partners. Most single non-clone women would be out of luck. What? You sound unfit. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
El Brujo Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 What? You sound unfit. Not as unfit as that idiot in Singapore who got swindled out of $5K because he thought a con man was going to sell him a clone of supermodel Elizabeth Hurley! Link to post Share on other sites
Jack32 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 This is obviously always an option except it can backfire on you pretty heavily. I know a friend whose brother did this. Basically he married a girl from the Philippines and brought her back to the US. Unfortunately she became a very different person once they were married and she was here so this sort of thing may be a dream that eventually becomes a living nightmare. Maybe try some dating sites etc? Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Actually, it isn't really a bad idea. Because they will leave you in a few yrs once they have established citizenship. And, as long as you have a solid pre-nup, you should be able to just forget them & do it all over again with a newer younger model. Just don't have kids with them. Because then you will be screwed. I suggest a vasectomy because they will also probably cheat on you & claim you are the father. At least this is how it went down with every guy I heard of that married a woman from the orient. It's definitely not my bag, too much a foolish romantic. But I can see how logically that would pan out, I guess you could get all systematic about it. I don't know though, I can't relate to guys who've never had any success with women or not have experienced "love"...It must definitely feel like a raw deal and like there's no one else in the world for you. If I knew I didn't want children and was in their shoes then I'd get a vasectomy as well...It might feel like you're being used, which she is using you and you as her as well...but hell, It's probably better than being alone the rest of your life If that's where you're at, and If that's how down about your options you are. Unfortunately I cannot relate, I have no idea IF people are exaggerating at times or just throwing their pity parties for the moment. It seems extreme but I've seen old men do this for a young hot piece of foreign @ss, rather than settle with someone their own age and they get that "exotic" feel to it as well. Of course the woman isn't stupid either and not going to just sit around, she's got her own goals/agenda. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Let's say you got a hot wife in early 20s from eastern europe. Your chubby average looking American female friends would tell you 'it's so wrong' Every time a girl says that ask her 'If I asked you out, would you give me a chance?' So they wouldn't give you chance but they think they have a right to say such B.S? Go visit there for a while. I am sure they have international program. Wouldn't it be fun studying in prague? Although you might not be able to compete physically with local guys, your background will give you lots of extra credit (english speaking, American citizen) Think about how American women will look at a guy from 3rd country like a trash. why would they do that even though he is the same human being? Luckily those women are from 3rd country and you are not so they will look you up. Every women has gold digger mind at certain degree. your job is to find the one at minimum level. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
musemaj11 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 (edited) Most wives were 'bought' anyway. Edited October 9, 2012 by musemaj11 2 Link to post Share on other sites
h0tminx Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 hi there. i hope you are well well honestly coming from a girl whose mom was from a third world country.....i think it is '''good''' that you actually thought buying a wife from that region. ( my mom wasnt bought lol ). because for one, those women who signed up for those websites are the ones living in poverty. and the only way for them to survive is to marry since they cant afford education. basically marriage is their only option to survive. which i think is rather sad. but the bad side of it is that, not all of these women is sincere ( well it applies to society as a whole, since they are people ). some marry because they wanna go overseas and enjoy their life, esp for the younger ones ( 18-early 20s ). so their young adult hormones are still raging lol. well if u were going to buy a wife, i propose that you shud get to know her inside and out first then you should to marry. it is not entirely a bad idea, it just depends on what you want in life best of luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 16, 2012 Author Share Posted October 16, 2012 I hope that I do not have to resort to buying a wife. If improving myself does get me a girl, then my problems are solved. However, if something such as my height prevents me from getting a girl and have not experienced any romance in my late 20s or 30's, then I will be left with no choice but to buy one. I would pick the one with most physical appeal. Her personality would not matter because I would assert dominance over her. She would be unable to leave me. However, all of this can be avoided if I am able to find love. Link to post Share on other sites
dmmm Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 I hope that I do not have to resort to buying a wife. If improving myself does get me a girl, then my problems are solved. However, if something such as my height prevents me from getting a girl and have not experienced any romance in my late 20s or 30's, then I will be left with no choice but to buy one. I would pick the one with most physical appeal. Her personality would not matter because I would assert dominance over her. She would be unable to leave me. However, all of this can be avoided if I am able to find love. I'm in my late 20's and in the same boat Sun Devil. I'm gonna give it a few more years. I've spent a long time not putting any effort into improving myself so gonna give it a few years of serious effort and see where I get. With buying a wife, what's to stop her just running away once she is here and married and a citizen? Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 I keep hearing stories about guys with no relationship experience in their 30s or 40s. I do not want to be like that so I am improving myself. However, if impproving myself does not work and I still am single in my 30s' then I will buy a wife from a 3rd world country. I know that this does not involve love, but if I am single for that long, then I will know that love does not exist. I see this as a better alternative to using hookers for life since I would be able to start a family. Have any of you guys considered it or is there a good reason not to do this and live life single? That sounds interesting! What countries do you have in mind? How do you see the procedure of buying a wife? Who is going to be a person you will pay for a wife? Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 (edited) I'm in my late 20's and in the same boat Sun Devil. I'm gonna give it a few more years. I've spent a long time not putting any effort into improving myself so gonna give it a few years of serious effort and see where I get. With buying a wife, what's to stop her just running away once she is here and married and a citizen? Well, I suppose you would buy a safe large enough to accommodate a human being, and keep her locked in there while you were out. ETA....that is a joke by the way. Just in case some of the freakier individuals on this board are thinking "hey, that sounds like a plan..." Edited October 16, 2012 by Taramere 3 Link to post Share on other sites
dmmm Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 Well, I suppose you would buy a safe large enough to accommodate a human being, and keep her locked in there while you were out. ETA....that is a joke by the way. Just in case some of the freakier individuals on this board are thinking "hey, that sounds like a plan..." Will the people who sell me the wife throw in a safe for free? Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted October 16, 2012 Share Posted October 16, 2012 Will the people who sell me the wife throw in a safe for free? Yeah, but you'd better make sure they don't mess up the combination if they send her prepackaged in the safe. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tiera D Posted October 19, 2012 Share Posted October 19, 2012 i have a evil idea,scared they run away? it takes time to get citizenship right? once they are about to get citizenship lets say in about 1-2 months time,send them back and get a new one,then repeat the process, im eeling mean today TD Link to post Share on other sites
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