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Sometimes i see this on the internet that (Men only want really attractive women).

 

I went out with few fellows to eat, there where like 10 chicks at the place and i found 7/8 of them at least attractive enough to sleep with.

 

So really i think i am not that picky about looks. Some of my guy friends have similar standards... but few have retarded standards.

 

So where did this nonsense come from, that if you are not attractive then you are off the radar for the average guy?.

 

(Same could go for women).

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the laments of ugly people, that's all lol..

 

looks are a major part of dating, it's too PC to say otherwise.

 

Without them at least you get nowhere. :laugh:

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All the women I have dated were model quality. It just happened that way, did not do it on purpose. Shortest one was 5'7".

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Generally speaking, men don't have much trouble finding a woman attractive enough to sleep with. When it comes to committing to one woman for the rest of their lives, that is where the attractiveness standards tend to skyrocket. As women generally are not into just sleeping with anyone, you can understand where they might get that impression as they are only looking for guys that will commit to them.

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post pics

 

I have no issues posting pictures of girls I have dated, mainly because a lot them were status hungry and want their pictures up on the web but still, difference between saying stuff and proving it through pics

 

That is not proper dude.

 

I can give you an idea of whom they look like.

 

Rachel McAdams and Buffy the Vampire killer. Most were between these two.

 

Not long ago I dated a half Nordic/black woman that was also model quality despite having tattoos.

 

I don't have a long list as I was married for many years.

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ya, and we all want mansions too but a lot will have to settle for a normal house

 

 

rarely do most of us get what we want because we lack the tools to get it, those same men who want models will sleep with a whale if the need comes for it

 

This makes me feel so much better.

 

 

:rolleyes:

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Well other than that imagination is a poor source. I do not say how the girls I have dated looked like, I just post pics when people ask. Then again that is how it worked on bodybuilding.com.

 

That's a shame that you do that to women you previously dated.

 

I do think a lot of men have scewed idea about women now-a-days. Too many visuals in the media that protray women a standard way. Through men's magazines, through film, through video games...women are getting psychologically slaughtered in media and men are eating up what ad exs are selling. Then there seems to be this strange anger I have seen some men develop where they are actually emotionally angry when women fail to be what they want them to be physically. It comes out through calling them names or shaming them for their bodies. It's not healthy.

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This makes me feel so much better.

 

 

:rolleyes:

 

You can always tell that these guys have NO clue about women and that the are probably never going to take the time to learn about women. They think women are going to be happy to be his second choice while he turns glazed eyes and a busy hand to his computer screen seeking his "fantasy". Human beings are capable of so much more then that. Sadly, you do see a lot of guys that don't even understand the fundementals of this.

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It's just as dumb as the attitude that no woman will ever be happy with anything less than a multi millionare with a sex pack who is damn near seven feet tall. Men are no more shallow than women are.

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This makes me feel so much better.

 

 

:rolleyes:

 

Like women dont do the same thing? in the perfect world women want tall dark and handsome but settle for what they can get

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You can always tell that these guys have NO clue about women and that the are probably never going to take the time to learn about women. They think women are going to be happy to be his second choice while he turns glazed eyes and a busy hand to his computer screen seeking his "fantasy". Human beings are capable of so much more then that. Sadly, you do see a lot of guys that don't even understand the fundementals of this.

 

Yes because its not like you have guys with six pack abs on commecrials selling products:rolleyes:

 

Women are just as into looks as Men lets stop acting like its only men who are these shallow pigs

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Generally speaking, men don't have much trouble finding a woman attractive enough to sleep with. When it comes to committing to one woman for the rest of their lives, that is where the attractiveness standards tend to skyrocket. As women generally are not into just sleeping with anyone, you can understand where they might get that impression as they are only looking for guys that will commit to them.

 

This is exactly it.

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I do think a lot of men have scewed idea about women now-a-days. Too many visuals in the media that protray women a standard way. Through men's magazines, through film, through video games...women are getting psychologically slaughtered in media and men are eating up what ad exs are selling. Then there seems to be this strange anger I have seen some men develop where they are actually emotionally angry when women fail to be what they want them to be physically. It comes out through calling them names or shaming them for their bodies. It's not healthy.

 

The same thing can be said about women having a screwed idea of what a man should be (in terms of looks, behavior, bank account) based on magazines, celebrity worship, luxury brand advertisements, movies, TV shows, photoshop trickery etc.

 

I'd argue that it's easier for a girl to buy a nose job and a C-cup than it is for a man to be muscular, tall and have a large bank account. But that's just my opinion.

 

Either way, no gender -male or female- wins at this game. Yet we are all subject to this quiet brain washing.

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Generally speaking, men don't have much trouble finding a woman attractive enough to sleep with. When it comes to committing to one woman for the rest of their lives, that is where the attractiveness standards tend to skyrocket. As women generally are not into just sleeping with anyone, you can understand where they might get that impression as they are only looking for guys that will commit to them.

 

It works the other way also though.

 

Women will bang the hot bartender but when it comes to long term commmitment they yearn for a man with high social and financial status.

 

In the dating world, poor men and ugly women struggle the most.

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Sometimes i see this on the internet that (Men only want really attractive women).

 

I went out with few fellows to eat, there where like 10 chicks at the place and i found 7/8 of them at least attractive enough to sleep with.

 

So really i think i am not that picky about looks. Some of my guy friends have similar standards... but few have retarded standards.

 

So where did this nonsense come from, that if you are not attractive then you are off the radar for the average guy?.

 

(Same could go for women).

 

What're you talking about? It seems all your threads are the same. :rolleyes:

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Like women dont do the same thing? in the perfect world women want tall dark and handsome but settle for what they can get

 

I never considered someone I decided to be with as settling. If you believe you are settling for a woman because she doesn't look like the porn you wack off too, I feel sorry for you.

 

By the way, some stereotypical guys I find handsome and other times I don't. Some guys you might be surprised by I have found really attractive. Ultimately, it's about chemistry.

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You can always tell that these guys have NO clue about women and that the are probably never going to take the time to learn about women. They think women are going to be happy to be his second choice while he turns glazed eyes and a busy hand to his computer screen seeking his "fantasy". Human beings are capable of so much more then that. Sadly, you do see a lot of guys that don't even understand the fundementals of this.

 

 

 

Plenty of people would love to have a million dollar mansion but are perfectly content with a 150,000 home....

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The same thing can be said about women having a screwed idea of what a man should be (in terms of looks, behavior, bank account) based on magazines, celebrity worship, luxury brand advertisements, movies, TV shows, photoshop trickery etc.

 

I'd argue that it's easier for a girl to buy a nose job and a C-cup than it is for a man to be muscular, tall and have a large bank account. But that's just my opinion.

 

Either way, no gender -male or female- wins at this game. Yet we are all subject to this quiet brain washing.

 

Isn't that just grand information for women. If you aren't wrapped in the package men want, heck, just buy a nose job and some boobs. Good Lord Fitz, talk about brain washing on your part here. Is that really the advice you want to give women? How many girls do you think have done just that to fit into the media world? Why would you tell women to further conform to those standards when more then half the women you see in the media have probably had more then one procedure done?

 

While I do think negative stereotyping happens to men, it does not happen to nearly the same degree that women get placed up on the chopping block. Women very well may want rich successful men but how many magazines or movies do you see that contain that that women are masturbating too? Excluding 50 Shades of Grey, one book, not all that many. How many forms of media do you see that sell women to men for men to masturbate too? Yeah, that's what I thought.

 

Why is whenever this discussion comes up, all that some of you guys can come back to is 'it happens to men too!!". Well no one said that things don't happen to men and that women are saints. How about just listening and acknowledging this issue for women in the context of this thread instead of getting out your tiny violin. But if you did that that would mean you would actually have to listen to what women say and you wouldn't be able to b*tch about your problems. If you want to create a thread about the male side, do it. But here, a woman started a thread because she is struggling and believes men only want acertain type of woman. Have some freaking heart.

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Plenty of people would love to have a million dollar mansion but are perfectly content with a 150,000 home....

 

Most people wouldn't even begin to understand the work that was required to maintain the facade of perfection in a million dollar mansion. They just see the illusion. I rather live in real life. To me, that makes everything else around me more real, relationships included. And to me, that is more priceless than a mansion.

 

But if you are content to settle for whatever it is you settle for just to have a warm body there, go for it. 5 years from now you can swim in your discontentment, boredom and frustration while you continue to jerk off to million dollar mansions despite the warm, safe, loving place the 150,000 home provided you for years. What a great way to live.

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Most people wouldn't even begin to understand the work that was required to maintain the facade of perfection in a million dollar mansion.

 

 

Huh? I know multiple people with million dollar mansions. What work are you talking about? It's just mainly people who are very good at their jobs and were able to get quickly promoted. I hang out at a 1.5 million dollar mansion every thursday and sunday

 

 

They just see the illusion. I rather live in real life. To me, that makes everything else around me more real, relationships included. And to me, that is more priceless than a mansion.

 

But if you are content to settle for whatever it is you settle for just to have a warm body there, go for it. 5 years from now you can swim in your discontentment, boredom and frustration while you continue to jerk off to million dollar mansions despite the warm, safe, loving place the 150,000 home provided you for years. What a great way to live.

 

 

If you want the reality, then yes all men would love to date a 10/10 model but this is not reality and most people in general are in tune with reality and we're perfectly happy to date somebody who is about as attractive as we are and in the same stage and overall success that we are at in life. Most guys don't have anywhere near enough in terms of appearance, personality or status/money to be able to date or handle a 10/10 model

 

 

I hate when these threads become male bashing fests because this stuff is not about gender. You don't think in a perfect world almost every woman would love to marry and be with a 10/10 millionaire CEO with the perfect charismatic personality?

 

 

Stop with your male bashing garbage and understand this stuff is not about gender. Women are just as guilty of it

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But here, a woman started a thread because she is struggling and believes men only want acertain type of woman. Have some freaking heart.

 

 

This is incorrect.

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The same thing can be said about women having a screwed idea of what a man should be (in terms of looks, behavior, bank account) based on magazines, celebrity worship, luxury brand advertisements, movies, TV shows, photoshop trickery etc.

 

I'd argue that it's easier for a girl to buy a nose job and a C-cup than it is for a man to be muscular, tall and have a large bank account. But that's just my opinion.

 

Either way, no gender -male or female- wins at this game. Yet we are all subject to this quiet brain washing.

 

 

Exactly this

 

 

I think it's far easier for women to be beautiful and thin than it is for a man to be extremely handsome, charismatic and have a ton of money

 

 

Male standards for attractiveness are far higher than the other way around. Male bashers like disenchantedly yours are blind to this of course

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Huh? I know multiple people with million dollar mansions. What work are you talking about? It's just mainly people who are very good at their jobs and were able to get quickly promoted. I hang out at a 1.5 million dollar mansion every thursday and sunday

 

Oh that's right, million dollar mansions just sustain themselves. There is no work required to maintain one. :rolleyes: Of course, anyone that owns a home knows how much work goes into their little home. Add about 5,000 more square feet, 5,000 more problems, and acres of property and even if you have to manage the people that do take care of it, it's still work. It doesn't take care of it self.

 

 

If you want the reality, then yes all men would love to date a 10/10 model but this is not reality and most people in general are in tune with reality and we're perfectly happy to date somebody who is about as attractive as we are and in the same stage and overall success that we are at in life. Most guys don't have anywhere near enough in terms of appearance, personality or status/money to be able to date or handle a 10/10 model

 

While I would agree this is true for you Still, I think there are men out there that have evolved past this way of thinking.

 

I am sure you will date plenty of women you will settle for in your life. This is how you are happy to live your life. But I know there are people out there that respect and honor their partners more then they do their fantasies. To me, it sounds like you respect and honor your fantasies more then you do another human being. Unfortunetly, I would agree that there are a lot of men out that that think like you. They don't give themselves the chance to evolve past this ego-centric status of beauty or wealth that the world tells them they must have to be happy.

 

 

I hate when these threads become male bashing fests because this stuff is not about gender. You don't think in a perfect world almost every woman would love to marry and be with a 10/10 millionaire CEO with the perfect charismatic personality?

 

I think in a perfect world people would love whoever they wanted to love not contingent on status, wealth or looks. I actually think a lot of people miss out on some great oppurtunities with other people because they might not have the qualities you've addressed. I think in a perfect world, everyone would have a match. I don't think in a perfect world eveyone would be rich and good looking. We have different ideas about what a perfect world is.

 

 

Stop with your male bashing garbage and understand this stuff is not about gender. Women are just as guilty of it.

 

How am I bashing men??? Because I said no woman wants to be your pity prize?

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I don't realy want models, but they all want me.

 

It's a sad situation.

 

:(

 

My heart bleeds for you. :( Is it your striking good looks, the size of your bank account, or just something special about you, that no other man can hold a candle to? The thing that makes you, you. If it's your looks, then you could try not taking care of your skin, grow a scary beard, gain 100lbs - something along those lines. If it's your finances, then you could give everything away to the homeless.

 

But if you're just that special, then I have no ideas for you. I'm afraid that you'll just have to live with it.

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