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TFarewell4

So I went out for dinner Sunday with my family (5/8). Me and my bros were checking out some of the hostesses and waitresses. There was this really cute hostess that was getting our table ready and on the way to the table she showed interest in me and started talking to me (it's a big place) and she told me "we are takin the scenic route if thats cool. kinda givin you a tour", or something like that. There was some other small talk and then she seated us. I thanked her, we shared smiles, and she said no problem. So we finished dinner and we were getting up to leave and I thought to myself that I should probably talk to her again and get her number. I couldn't find her and I was afraid she had left. I saw no problem in giving my number to someone to hand to her, so I pulled out a receipt from my pocket, from earlier in the day, and then ripped off the top white part of it and wrote my name and number. I told our waiter to hand it to the curly short haired blonde hostess, because I didn't know her name. She was the only hostess that fit that description, everyone else had brown hair. So after I got home I received a text from her and the time on it was 10 to 15 minutes after I gave my number to the waiter. She said, "hi, apparently you gave Darren your number to give to me". Then I texted back saying, "Hey, yeah sorry about that I couldn't find you so I gave it to Darren. I hope he gave it to the right person lol are u the hostess with the curly blonde hair? she replied, "yup that's me lol".(in the next text I was trying to describe myself because she is a hostess so she sees a lot of people) so I replied with, "I was the guy with the shaved head...with the big party in the back" then I wanted to recall something she said to me to keep it lively and to help her remember, so in that same text I said, "U told me we were takin the scenic route lol would u wanna go out sometime?".

 

It is now 5/9 (almost 5/10) and she hasn't texted me back. Based on the situation I have myself in what should I do? Should I call her? Text again? Wait? And remember I still don't know her name. I'm new at this. I have never really tried to get girls numbers and ask them out and what not, so I probably made mistakes. I should have asked for her name. Was I too bold/harsh in my texts? I kind of got straight to the point maybe this turned her off? Is there anyway to salvage this? Should I send her another text asking her name and re-clarify why I am so interested? Or should I just wait another day and call and explain, and maybe ask if she wants to hang? Please I really need some advice and I can't find anybody in my situation on other websites. I would really appreciate it and remember I have little experience so be sincere in your responses

 

Thanks

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nyc_guy2003

I'm sorry to break it to you but it's highly likely that when she figured out who you were she wasn't interested. Maybe she was hoping it was some hot guy that she had seated that night instead. Sorry man.

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