sicknasty1 Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 Hi guys, I never thought I would be on one of these forum things ever. Anyways my name is Nick and I am a junior in HS. I haven't really had a relationship with a girl and I don't really have crushes on girls too often. But... every once in a while you will come across that one special person who is everything you ever wanted. That is what happened to me in my 2nd semester in business class. This blond hair blue eyed girl that sits right next to me... the second a layed eyes on her I was crazy about her. My heart would race, my face would melt whenever i looked at her. Funny thing is all this time i thought she was interested in me too. She glanced at me alot.... I could always see it in the corner of my eye. One of her bff's sits right behind her so they always talked quietly amongst each other. Every time i walked to my seat in beginning of class it seemed like they would stop talknig just to acknowldge my presence as I took my seat and than carry on. I could see her playing with her hair excessively around me. When I met eyes with her she would look away real quick... it was hard to look her straight in the eyes... someonething about her i've never seen in any other girl. She seems like the quiet shy type in school but different out of school. One time in the computer lab i caught her looking straight at me and she looked away real fast. Everyday my affection to get to know her has grown more and more... i truly felt like she was attracted to me and I was to her. Funny thing as we have not said a single word to one another. So i added her on facebook... left her a comment on her wall saying "Thx for the add cutie" I waited.... waited... and waited... never got a reply and it was obvious she had ignored it by now or decided not to reply. This past weekend I had gotten a chance to chat her on facebook. This is exactly how it went... Me: hey whats up Her: who are you? Me: my names Nick haha.. im in your business class familiar? Her: no....sorry Me: i c Me: r u sure? Her: yea Me: lol front row... Her: noooooooopppe Me: ooooohhh Me: well anyways did u do tht proj. tht was due on friday[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT] *she signed off... After that I felt like complete ****... I heard from some friends that she can be a shady bitch, and that she had use to be a shy quit nice girl. Apparently now she just drinks and dates a bunch of losers that cheat in her an a break her heart. I've seen on her wall how many times shes had her heart broken and stuff like that and her friends posting stuff like, "the 3rd one will be a charm, I'll find you a REAL man bestie." Well I'm a real man. I would have treated her and repected her like not other guy could ever do for her. That's when I realized I deserve better than her. I never really had an attraction for blonde blue eyed girls but she was just different. She was short, beautiful face with amazing eyes, I felt happy just to be around her. I had a vibe like no other person from her. I couldn't stop thinking of her for like a week straight. Now I know that she is just a shallow conceited person on the inside. I don't know... maybe she was judgmental of me on the outside because I have rich tanned skin...dark hair and brown eyes... (puertorican mix w/indian) But anyways I find myself very attractive and I have a very built phsyique. The way she acted around me it truly felt like she was attracted to me too. If she had only gave me a chance I would have rocked her world. Any advice or tips would be great.. I just needed to let this out somewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
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You'reasian Posted May 5, 2009 Share Posted May 5, 2009 Too much haha in your post. Link to post Share on other sites
windows Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 ... you have a massive case of crush. most direct cure? Make a move on her and then hit or miss. After that you move on. Link to post Share on other sites
alexanderlooo Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 I was listening to the radio today on xm, and one of the topics they had talked about was how you would respond or basically act when given the situation where you are attracted to someone and only have a few moments to say anything to them before you had you/they had to leave (pretend its in an elevator) one of the callers they had on the show said that he was brought up to never be a 'what if' type of person, and I seriously think that's the best way to live in any situation. for you, i personally think you should have confronted her in class and spoken to her face to face prior to posting on her wall. I'm a guy, and from personal experience and taking in info from sisters and other girl friends... getting a wall post or message by someone you don't know or have ever even talked to is hindered and can be looked at as a sketchball type move. advice you could take with you in your future is .. just go up to her, introduce yourself, let her know who you are, anything. It'll show you're confident in who you are and even if it fails, at least you KNOW it wasn't meant to be, and it won't leave you thinking .. what if? Link to post Share on other sites
kostoronto Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 Ok, you were pretty creepy by adding her and talking to her w/o knowing her in real life; however, her reaction was not good, either. She sounds like a right piece of work and I wouldn't put that much time into her. If you do like her, do what the others said and make a move! Link to post Share on other sites
Desperdo Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 She sounds a bite stuck up to me.(No offense) Of course I agree it was creepy adding her on face book. Without not knowing in real life. But you can't help that feeling of a crush. That was possibley a good/creepy move. But good to hear you moved on. Though its hard, more then likey the right thing to do. If shes this kind of girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiocfaidh Armari Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 Yep I remember the a similar problem (without the internet) with a girl I had a huge crush on, and still have on one, but I just let things go and am waiting until she matures out of the same habits you're chosen one has taken up. I now face meeting the girl again in an upcoming election when going door-to-door as her house is on the Voter Register. Needless to say, thanks to my choice of career and "nice guy" personality which voters appreciate, its easy to see where I am now compared to the hole she's stuck herself in. Link to post Share on other sites
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