yes Posted February 19, 2002 Share Posted February 19, 2002 is it possible to be fully over someone before you start liking someone else? is it really possible to have a time when u dont like _anyone_? hehe, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
BeenThere Posted February 19, 2002 Share Posted February 19, 2002 Absolutely! As a matter of fact, it is even *healthy* to spend some "alone time" in between relationships. Absent of distractions, it is sometimes the ONLY time a person has to focus on themselves and learn what it really takes to be truely happy...which is something that must come from "within" before you go and look for someone else to provide it for you. And once you are comfortable with "yourself" you will figure out how to REMAIN that way with or without a second person in your life. Happiness than becomes something you can *give* to another person rather than something you are looking to *receive*. Spent two very contentful years without the desire for another person in my life after I ended my 15-year marraige. Was over the ex and not interested in anyone else. Was happier at that time than at any time before in my life. And now that that second person has found me my life is equally as rich, but can't say that I would prefer it one way or another. I have learned to be happy with my life either way! is it possible to be fully over someone before you start liking someone else? is it really possible to have a time when u dont like _anyone_? hehe, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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