yes Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 hey tony! well - strange as it happens, right when i was obsessively upset over the guy who went to college and disappeared on me, another guy appeared, and seems to like me. i've only seen him 4 times, and a common guy-friend introduced us. i dont rlly like the guy, but i might date him for the heck of having some fun ... makes sense? now what bothers me are two things: i think he has a gf ... at least i heard our common friend mention her several times. - but that is none of my business i guess. next - he seems really keen - like i said, ive onyl seen him 4 times, last time was 3-4 days ago, and he's been trying to take me out for coffee every single night since then! ... he's full of compliments- beautiful, smart, rare, yada yada... he asked who's my bf, apparently asked around abotu me, etc ... this made me a lil suspicious - he seems to treat me too "right" ... if only he was my type, i'd prolly be already all into him. SO here's what i wanna ask: is this normal behaviour of a guy who's interested? or does he sound player-ish? i've never had a guy be so keen to be around me so quickly ... he's 23, im 19 - if age changes anything ... any comments? thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 First of all, find out if he's got a girlfriend. Why would you want to help a guy cheat on his girlfriend? Second, this is nothing more than a rebound for you and a pretty sorry one at that. You said yourself in your post that you "don't really like the guy." So why would you even want to waste your time and why would it make any difference if he's interested in you or not? The guy sounds like a player and a dud. Why don't you just enjoy a little down time? If you want a male friend to do things with, at least find somebody you like. To answer your question, there's no such thing as "normal" behavior for a guy because most guys aren't "normal." Link to post Share on other sites
Author yes Posted January 8, 2002 Author Share Posted January 8, 2002 I've thought about this one, and it's a somewhat silly reason but ..... i am just too curious abotu the sexual side of things ... i dont rlly NEED to be in a relnship - i think im independent nuff mentally ... i easily enjoy myself on my own ... BUT ive never had any kinda sex, and am quite curious to try it ... however, i obviously dont wanna do it unless im very into the guy ... but this is why i cant seem to slow down and enjoy some single time ... any advice?? First of all, find out if he's got a girlfriend. Why would you want to help a guy cheat on his girlfriend? Second, this is nothing more than a rebound for you and a pretty sorry one at that. You said yourself in your post that you "don't really like the guy." So why would you even want to waste your time and why would it make any difference if he's interested in you or not? The guy sounds like a player and a dud. Why don't you just enjoy a little down time? If you want a male friend to do things with, at least find somebody you like. To answer your question, there's no such thing as "normal" behavior for a guy because most guys aren't "normal." Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 8, 2002 Share Posted January 8, 2002 YOU ASK: "any advice??" Nope! Link to post Share on other sites
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