Mydish1 Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 I'm a full time senior 22, I keep myself busy with school and projects (and work if i succeed). I job hunt daily, it hasnt been yielding results as the job market is competitive in my field in nyc, but im not the type that gives up. I was fine for the most part up until today, I have my family and great friends i can talk/hangout with. Strangely enough I got back from class tonight, with a slight feeling of loneliness, that im missing something from my life..the physical and emotional affection of a woman. the Uni i attend is 75% women, a lot of them are physically pretty/beautiful. But I find myself being in a strange point in my life that a lot of women i come across, i dont find attractive. On rare or specific days, wherever & whenever it may be, that one particular girl will catch 100% of my undivided attention. At this point in my life I feel i dont have the time for a relationship..afterall schedules would clash as I'm a night/weekend student looking for a day job. I have a couple of female friends who happen to be single, but they live in different parts of the city as well. We get together when there's a chance, i try to avoid anything coming between our friendship for several reasons. This is a strange post...I want what i dont want, i dont want what I want....confused at this stage. Anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 Interested to hear what others think of this... I'm at same point as you, too much going on to have time/energy for a relationship and yet I feel lonely when I get home at night... I'm longing for someone but also majority of men that I come into contact with I'm just not attracted to... I don't even know what I want. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 This is a strange post...I want what i dont want, i dont want what I want....confused at this stage. Anyone? I agree. Have you considered monkhood? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mydish1 Posted October 31, 2006 Author Share Posted October 31, 2006 monkhood would be too good for me..haha. Anyway i've come across another realization that a lot of people that i come across in my daily life is boring and uninteresting, maybe that or i'm just too exhausted by mid day to care. I also realize that it would be nice to have a woman's companionship, either mentally, physically, or emotionally. to be frank, i dont think i care who that girl should be anymore. I feel like turning on the jerk switch for some reason.... Today I ran into this girl on campus who asked me out to coffee about a year ago which i had declined, we had a nice chat and after we parted it struck me that i should ask her out for coffee. if her # is still the same, i think ill give her a call. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Today I ran into this girl on campus who asked me out to coffee about a year ago which i had declined, we had a nice chat and after we parted it struck me that i should ask her out for coffee. if her # is still the same, i think ill give her a call. Things are looking up. Maybe your taste is maturing. Link to post Share on other sites
fatty Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Hey, I completely relate to yoru situation. I am in my 3rd year, also 22 years of age and feeling lonely. First I did not what it was. I am a really social person so I always have lots of freinds to hang out with but I miss that emotional connect that you share with someone. Also the physical, not in a sexual sense but just cuddling and stuff. I realize that I wont be able to maintain a relationship but want one because of my lonliness. There are barely any girls that turn my head, they only turn my head when they are physically attractive. No one is intellectual aware or at the mental level as me for me to feel a good connection. There is this one girl, she is my freind. I had met her this summer in my clases. Slowly for some odd reason I am begining to like her and its wrong because I know I would not have a chance in hell with her. I am not saying this to put myself down but I know what type of men she likes and is interested in. Also I do not want to loose the freindship we have started or have. Until I can get a clear sign from her end I am not gonna do anything. I wish LS would have a cuddle meetings. HEHE wish you luck bro. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Lonliness Well, some of us just have to get used to it. Give up. Accept it and look for other things to give meaning to existence. You're young though. Twenty-two is still practically a baby. I wouldn't worry about it much. Not yet Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Lonliness Well, some of us just have to get used to it. Give up. Accept it and look for other things to give meaning to existence. You're young though. Twenty-two is still practically a baby. I wouldn't worry about it much. Not yet At least not until you're 32! Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 At least not until you're 32! Don't patronize me Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Don't patronize me Damn it! That was going to be my entertainment for the night! Party-pooper. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Damn it! That was going to be my entertainment for the night! Party-pooper. Leave him alone, or you'll get what's coming to you. Straight to bed with no dessert. Link to post Share on other sites
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