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Old 23rd January 2018, 6:39 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by OpenBook View Post
Some men just need a push.
Understand what you're saying but I just can't help but wonder about the resolve and tenacity behind the commitment of someone I had to "push" to the altar.

paradise found, this is theoretically the rest of your life we're talking about. Think carefully about the best way to identify the person you want to spend it with...

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"Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for." - Epicurus
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Old 28th January 2018, 7:03 PM   #17
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Thank you for the opinions. My brain is full of thoughts right now. Weighing both options. This is an emotional subject for me because I was really wanting to marry him. But, I donít want to marry someone who doesnít want to marry me. I do need to regain my independence. Get my happy back, so to speak. And then see where life takes me. Everyone has had really good insights. I appreciate responses.
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