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Old 14th November 2017, 3:55 PM   #16
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Cut your losses and move on to someone else.

Men want children to carry on their family name. So in the back of his mind he can't commit to you because eventually he will want kids. And because of your condition it's too high of a risk for him to chance being with you and not having children.

I know it sucks but you're still young and can find someone who will love you.
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Old 14th November 2017, 11:49 PM   #17
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He doesn't want to have children with you but he is straddling the fence by saying "i don't know"

Let him go immediately and move forward with someone who wants you like nothing else.
True power is having the ability to walk away from what I desire, to protect that which I love.
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