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Old 21st June 2017, 4:34 PM   #1
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Living with mother inlaw

I am getting married. And my FiancÚ takes care of his mother and
little sister. He said he plans to either make his mom stay with his brother or relative. I honest don't feel comfortable living with the inlaws but then again
I feel REALY bad for making her move out of her confort zone. He said she is going out of the country next year, should I just live with them till then. Or am I going to regret. I have not met her yet so I don't know her personality. LOST!
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Old 21st June 2017, 8:02 PM   #2
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You're engaged and have not met her yet? How odd.
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Old 21st June 2017, 8:09 PM   #3
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Take this man for husband and everything that comes with him.

If you ask of her to move out you will start this marriage on a very bad foot with a mother in law, and probably his entire family, resenting you.

You knew his situation when you said *yes* to his marriage proposal right?
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Old 1st July 2017, 8:11 PM   #4
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EASY. Just don't get married unless or until she moves out and leaves for the other country next year. This will be a mess.
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