dk321 Posted March 28, 2019 Share Posted March 28, 2019 An woman gave me her number and said we should go out for a drink sometime. We have had brief small talk in passing and I got the feeling that she liked me. I think she's in her forties and has kids (not young). We haven't spoken or met up so I'm not sure what she is looking for. But, from my side I'm more interested in hooking up or fwb situation, if she's interested. I'm thinking as she's older she may be looking for something more serious? not sure. What's the best way to approach the situation as I haven't really been successful with these types of setups. I've mainly been in ltr. She could either be offended or down with it. I'll likely see her around regardless of the outcome. Link to post Share on other sites
Simple Logic Posted March 28, 2019 Share Posted March 28, 2019 (edited) Not sure how if ask a woman if she wants to be a **** buddy. Why don’t you call her, go out for a drink and do some evaluation. For all you know she wants a one and done. Edited March 28, 2019 by Simple Logic Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted March 29, 2019 Share Posted March 29, 2019 Yes, call her and go out for a drink and get a better handle on what she's looking for. If after talking to her for an hour or so you still want a simple FWB situation (and nothing more) just tell her that. If she says no you haven't lost anything but a little time money for a few drinks. Link to post Share on other sites
snowcones Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 You say, "I'm looking for a fwb" Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 This FWB thing....is that how you'd feel with all women at present? Or is it about her only being good for sex? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 Most women are not really just looking for FWB, so I wouldn't get my hopes up. I bet if that's all she wanted, she'd just do it on Tinder. You should probably just text her up front and tell her, Hey, I'm not looking for a relationship and really only interested in hooking up at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 Yes, you need to tell her upfront asap by text. No point in arranging a date and risk getting your face slapped when she realises you just want a hook up... No point in wasting her time if she is looking for more than a hook up or a fwb arrangement. Link to post Share on other sites
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