Frazzle Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 I have a coworker who is also a friend. I don't think she likes me romantically and I know she's not for me. However, I think there is a mutual attraction. She always compliments my haircuts and also when I dress up. We've gone hiking with just the two of us. I get the feeling she's attracted to me. She's moving to Boston soon. I told her I'll hang out with her if i'm ever in town since i have another friend in Boston. I was wondering if it was a good idea to try to make a move on her and hook up when I'm out there. It will be less complicated and awkward since we'll no longer be working in the same office. However, I'm worried I'll be shot down if I'm misreading the attraction. Or maybe she wouldn't be interested in hooking up. Of course, this is all contingent upon her still being single when I come out. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 well you have to take a chance...she may like you but never did anything cause you worked together Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frazzle Posted March 5, 2019 Author Share Posted March 5, 2019 well you have to take a chance...she may like you but never did anything cause you worked together Well, I'm not interested in dating her. I've realized that we wouldn't be compatible. She's also too impatient for my taste. Also, I think she's reached the same conclusion as me, that I'm not the one for her. She hangs out with other male friends/coworkers one on one all the time so that hiking hang out was not very telling. She's all hung out with a friend's boyfriend one on one...which is kind of odd but it goes to show how willing she is to hang out with other guys one on one. I'm only interested in hooking up with her because she's cute and I feel like she might feel the same way about me. In short, I want to hook up with her if I'm ever in Boston but I'm not sure if it's worth it to make a move. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 Well, I'm not interested in dating her. I've realized that we wouldn't be compatible. She's also too impatient for my taste. Also, I think she's reached the same conclusion as me, that I'm not the one for her. She hangs out with other male friends/coworkers one on one all the time so that hiking hang out was not very telling. She's all hung out with a friend's boyfriend one on one...which is kind of odd but it goes to show how willing she is to hang out with other guys one on one. I'm only interested in hooking up with her because she's cute and I feel like she might feel the same way about me. In short, I want to hook up with her if I'm ever in Boston but I'm not sure if it's worth it to make a move. why not devote your immense energy on some other more suitable girl?? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 5, 2019 Share Posted March 5, 2019 Worry about it if/when you get to Boston. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frazzle Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 why not devote your immense energy on some other more suitable girl?? Hooking up with her doesn’t preclude me from hooking up with other girls. Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 I went back and read some of your other posts. Most of them from the last couple years are about a co-worker- is this that same person? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frazzle Posted March 8, 2019 Author Share Posted March 8, 2019 I went back and read some of your other posts. Most of them from the last couple years are about a co-worker- is this that same person? That’s another coworker who’s still at the office. Link to post Share on other sites
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