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My guy friend gave me a LONG letter on the last day of school. He is graduating and I have one more year. I like him and he is not a big flirt because he is shy. His letter was in an envelope with the smell of cologne and origami figures folded in it. I've been dropping hints to him about asking me out, but I might need to be more direct.

 

I cannot figure out what his point is in his letter. Does he love me (romantically or platonically)? Does he want a relationship? Is he saying goodbye? How should I respond? Is he just sharing his feelings to get them off of his chest? Should I write back, email, or arrange a time to talk to him?

 

Here is the letter(I edited anything identifying any of us):

 

Dear. ,

It has been an honor to work with you over this past semester and to be a classmate with you over the past year. To be honest, my graduation is bittersweet as I will see less of you as our academic paths divert. When you first arrived with your cohort last year, my initial thought was "This woman is so professional, but maybe too professional." Spending time with you in our film class over last summer, I thought "Wow, she is such a sweet, gentle, and special person." After getting to know you over the course of this semester, I have realized what kind of person you are. I have a lot of heroes, but I honestly think you are the one that has influenced me the most as a peer, Superwoman. You are my hero because of how you are able to work as hard as you do, meet group demands, and still manage to show up to class the next day with a smile on your face. My most captivating memory of you that imprinted yourself upon my heart was during a routine team meeting for our internship program. You came in to class that morning and you sounded like you had a sore throat and a serious cold. During that entire class and meeting, you did not utter a single complaint and you recorded our meeting minutes despite the discomfort you may have had. Soon after, I read your biography and I felt captivated by the person that you are. It was apparent that you were someone that lived for others with a strong servant's heart, that you were a caring soul, that you were humble, and that you were a motivator. About a month later, you had another cold and you further confirmed some thoughts I had about you. Again, you did not complain, you kept meeting minutes, made an agenda, and tried your best to sit through two classes. I swear, I wanted to hug you, take you to your house, and get you whatever you needed while you rested, but the remarkable thing about you is how self-reliant and tough you are. I have seen you faced with stressful situation, but I have never seen you falter. It is said that pressure can turn coal into diamonds, but I never saw pressure turn you into dust. As I texted to you that day:

 

"It is the days like today that confirm why I think so highly of you. Despite being sick, you worked on a project, attended class, made an agenda, and kept minutes. You are an awesome person."

 

Now, why did I feel compelled to write this? As you know, I am not a person of many words. You are like an iceberg because the person that I had the privilege of working alongside was undoubtedly only a small chunk of who you really are. You are like an unfinished book because the chapters I have seen are impressive, but what comes next will surely be more impressive. You are the type of person that books are written about, that movie scripts headline with a star actress, and that ultimately make a difference in world while inspiring others. I was one of those people that you inspired. As you and I once talked about, the blank canvas of your life is starting to look like a work of art comparable to Michelangelo's work in the Sistine Chapel. That smile and cheerful attitude of yours made every day of class worthwhile and always made my entire day feel special. I always wanted to help you in any way I could despite my limited skillset. I would be holding back if I did not mention your beauty. While your soul is beautiful, so is your appearance. I have honestly never seen someone make glasses look so pretty while maintaining a grace comparable to Kate Middleton. Your smile could radiate through a cement wall and bring warmth and joy to everyone in range. In my imagination, I also assume that you would look beautiful in a ballroom gown with your undying elegance. In any case, I felt that I needed to put these feelings to paper in order to share these emotions. There were times, too many to count, during this semester where I felt like the luckiest person in the world to be in a group with you. On a few occasions, you asked me to proofread some of your work and I felt honored that someone as smart as you would ask a lowly person like me to suggest corrections to your work, but I also would be lying if I did not think that you were trying to show off marginally. At times, you would seem to act insecure about your writing, but in my opinion, your insecurity seemed like it was a byproduct of your modesty because of how much effort you put into your writing. I felt even more honored to sit by you and be able to experience your fantastic personality up close. Whether it was your morning cheerfulness or you doing something as caring as washing the dishes after a classmate's study session at his home, you never ceased to amaze me. Additionally, I was puzzled as to why such a nice and charismatic individual would even want to sit right next to me which is what happened at the beginning of our last semester. Whether it was in our marketing class, talking about dieting in Nutrition, or talking about Chinese films, I enjoyed every moment with you as a classmate despite the appearance of my suppressed emotional state. Trust me, I was grinning on the inside and it made every long and tiring morning worthwhile. At other times, I felt that I may have been an intrusive presence. Honestly, there were times that I felt guilty and that I may have inadvertently alienated such a good person. Personally, I always wanted to compliment you, but I felt that those comments sometimes came out as odd, creepy, or misplaced. At times, I felt like my attempted compliments may have made you uncomfortable because I felt like there were days in which you were afraid of me or would hope that I disappeared. If I ever did make you uncomfortable, I apologize. You taught me a lot about faith in God and guiding our paths in your own beautiful words. After all, I guess it might have been God's way by guiding me into this business program in order for me to meet someone like you. I mean, what are the odds that someone who grew up with a near genius IQ would be in class with this average guy just finishing school as a stepping stone towards pursuing future passions? The odds were stacked against me experiencing such an event whether I realized it or not.

 

I tried my best to hold in my emotions, but I feel that ultimately failed in the end. Why? I failed because of your true candor and generosity. Some messages we have exchanged over Google Hangouts are permanently engraved into my mind. You never tried to take credit and you would often thank God for successes in your life. However, we both know hard you have worked and fought to become the person that you are. As a result, my soul itself would be conflicted and I would find myself dumbstruck by your beautiful words. These emotions would consume me and I would think for hours about your words even if you wrote only few short sentences. Whenever I had the chance, I wanted to make sure that I voiced my opinions of you. You are a truly amazing woman. There were times when I wanted to ask you out on a date, but I ultimately felt that such words would be distracting between our group project and your internship, so I did not wish levy that burden on you. Not only that, if you did not harbor the best emotions towards me, I did not want to generate that discomfort. I even thought that uttering such a query would inappropriate because you are something much larger than that to me because of everything I have learned about you. As a kid, I had many heroes, but I see you as one of mine as a peer. There is a verse from poem that can summarize some of my feelings about this:

You can fool the whole world down the highway of years and take pats on the back as you pass,

But your final reward will be heartbreak and tears if you cheated the man in the glass.

 

When I read that poem, I used to think of myself as the man looking into the glass and seeing disappointment, but after talking with you on a few occasions I felt as if I would peer into that mirror one day and see what I wanted. You have told me some things that I never thought I would ever hear another individual utter in my direction. Your kindness as a female managed melt the ice around my heart and exposed cracks in my armor as that facade of the emotionless person I would try to portray slowly withered away. Whether you were just being nice, you had kind thoughts towards me, or you thought me as anything else, you made me look deep into myself and try to define who I am, but I think my definition may still not be known.

 

I want to acknowledge how I will view you in the future. Your future is as bright as a thousand suns. Whether your yellow-brick road takes you through the military or to parts unknown, I hope to see how that path pans out. I hope you do not forget about the little people like me as your path will undoubtedly bring about hundreds of new faces, but I can say for sure that I will NEVER forget you. Whether I am looking down on your beautiful path while nestled high above, or I am working side-by-side with you on the ground, if you call upon me, I will be there for you if needed. As a friend, as an Excel guru, as a workout buddy or running buddy, as a proofreader, as anything, as a person to call to make the boredom of slow traffic pass by, you can count on my assistance because it is the least I can do after the wonderful memories you have given me over this last year in our program. As for myself, you already know about where I hope to start my path, but I still think of the lingering question that you gave me on that Friday in March "Where do you see yourself eventually?" I don't know and as for the people that I hope to share that future life with, I do not know where that path will lead either, but I do know that I would not mind having someone close to share my passion with, whether it's a child on my knee, or someone who just wants to travel with me exploring every facet of this beautiful country. I am not one to comment on love as I would not know it, but I will say that you have shaped my expectations. You are truly one in a million and if you do not realize that now, then you will realize that in hundreds of faces that you encounter as they gaze upon you in the future. On that note you also mentioned on that Friday morning "Hopefully our paths cross again." I hope for that as well. In fact, as Judy Garland once sang:

 

"Somewhere over the rainbow, way up high

There's a land that I've heard of once in a lullaby.

Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue

And the dreams that you dare to dream,

Really do come true.

Someday I'll wish upon a star

And wake up where the clouds are far behind me.

Where troubles melt like lemon drops,

High above the chimney tops,

That's where you'll find me.

Somewhere over the rainbow, blue birds fly

Birds fly over the rainbow

Why then, oh why can't I?

If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow

Why, oh why can't I?"

 

I hope that I may see you at the other end of that rainbow one day if our paths diverge from here because my future memories will include a lot of looking back at the time I spent with you. I cannot help, but admit that there were so many times during this last semester where thoughts of you raced through my mind. In fact, I admit that I may have held a crush on you, still have one and probably always will, but I thought making that known to you would have negatively impacted our group project. In fact, I would be lying if I said that I did not fantasize and possibly still fantasize about us going out, developing a relationship, embracing each other on the day of graduation, and possibly being together. In fact, part of me will always hope that if you were to be single, that I could be there on your wing. In fact, as a side note, some people always thought there was something marginally romantic between us during the Chinese film class and they would mention it to me frequently, but I would keep this thought in the back of my mind "If only I could be so lucky." I remember another time in Project Management where I missed a question and you briefly put your hand on top of mine and said "It's alright." However, I noticed in the past months as a change in the attitude between us. At first, I thought you were mad at me as there were days that seemed as if you wanted to ignore me. On other days, it seemed like I had upset you, but you would still sit in proximity to me despite the silence. Then, I noticed some things as we had a beautiful talk on our final full session of our leadership class. I remember talking about future dreams and passion, I remember you and I both finding love in "Over the Rainbow" , but also I remember when we saw eye-to-eye on pursuing our passions rather than letting them pass by. First, you were sharing your dreams passionately; you still thought that I was being too nice with my comments, and that you want comfort in life. Second, your body language gave an interesting story as I could tell you were engaged in the conversation, you were attentive, you were blushing at times, and that you had somehow become a little more nervous or shy around me. I do not know whether your nervousness was the result of discomfort, uncertainty, or the possibility of feelings towards me, but it followed a pattern of your quick glances, sharp dressing, and even times of disbelief. If by some small chance you were nervous because of a crush on me, I am flattered and in which case, if I have not already told you in person, I would and will always welcome your feelings with open arms as you did with so many of mine. I want to assure you that you never need to be nervous as long as you speak the truth and you should never worry about what others think of you. In fact, I remember that the following Tuesday, I offered to help you finish a project for class. I did not originally anticipate spending too much time on that project, but something felt right about being there with you, so I stayed and I enjoyed every minute of it. You seemed stressed that day and I finally overcame my fears and put my arm around your shoulder to reassure you and the slight grin that I caught in the corner of your mouth sent me home a happy person. On the day of our presentation, we shared another hug and for me, it felt as if I had finally experienced something I had long missed out on when I finally got to put my arms around you and see you happy and relaxed. You are a great person to know and an even greater person to understand. I have heard you say that you have felt insecure about things like your car, independence and finance, and even about how chaotic your work- life balance is. None of those items define you, if someone is as shallow as to look past your accomplishments and your work ethic just to judge you on material possessions, then that person is a fool. We all start from somewhere, we all have insecurities, and the ways that we overcome those insecurities are what will ultimately define us. Hopefully, whether you have a boyfriend or not when you read this, I hope that he can adequately describe to you in person what I am putting on paper when I describe the hope and cheer that you have engraved into my memories. Unfortunately, I can only summarize my reflection of those great memories and emotions of you with some lyrics from a Faith Hill song:

 

"When I think back on these times

And the dreams we left behind

I'll be glad 'cause I was blessed to get to have you in my life

When I look back on these days

I'll look and see your face

You were right there for me

In my dreams I'll always see you soaring by the sky

In my heart there'll always be a place for you

For all my life

I'll keep a part of you with me

And everywhere I am there you'll be

Well you showed me how it feels

To feel the sky within my reach

And I always will remember all the strength you gave to me."

 

Well, now that you have made it this far, then you have endured my saturated memories, comparisons to heroes who may normally go unnoticed, corny compliments, and awkward music references. For that, I congratulate you. Now, I will conclude with some final thoughts. Yes, I have not used the word "love" for a multitude of reasons, especially if you do not harbor any such feeling towards me. However, I do want to say that I "love" things about you from your smile, attitude, candor, perseverance, selflessness, work ethic, and leadership. If all women could be like you, the world would almost be perfect. Above all though, you are my hero. Out of every emotion I could mention, the strongest emotion I have for you is respect. You have inspired me in ways that I cannot explain despite my most fervent attempts. In fact, I think you could say this entire essay played more like a gushy fan letter, but I hope you see it for what I intended it to be, a thank you letter. I have no regrets in writing this except for the fact of how long it would take for me to tell you this in person and the fact that I may never understand your honest thoughts or opinions of me as a person. Not knowing your thoughts of me will probably be the one mystery I will have to endure. I would rather write this and fail to get my full point across rather than miss the moment due to the fear of failure. Personally, I do regret not being able to know you earlier because it feels like I missed out on part of a very unique story. I wish you the best of luck towards your future endeavors. I hope that you seize the moment every time opportunity knocks for you.

 

Enjoy your final semester as the gateway to your glorious future lies directly ahead. Do not miss the moment. I am always available to help you with anything if it is needed. I live right across the freeway, so if you ever need help on anything, feedback, suggestions, pool access, or a person to share or watch movies with, it is no inconvenience for me at all because of how much I owe you and because how much I enjoy your company. Every moment with you has made feel as if I am getting closer to becoming the person I want to be one day. Hopefully, we can keep in touch. I will leave my contact information if you want to keep in touch. Rock on, Superwoman! All I ask is for the permission to continue regular correspondence with you because of your great value to me as a friend and more. Hopefully, we can talk sometime soon, go for a run, grab some tea, see a movie, or just hang out. As a friend, I would definitely like to show you around some of the great places around here that you may have not visited yet. As anything more to you, I will not let you down if called upon. If you notice a little spot on the envelope, I am sealing this envelope with a tear because I feel that tears are the only way to signify gratitude towards another person after one journey ends and another begins, but believe me, these tears that I shed as I think about my time with you are tears of pure joy.

 

With "love", admiration, respect, and prayers,

 

Your group member, your Excel guru, your occasional proofreader, your professional admirer, and maybe at the very least your long-time friend,

 

J

 

P.S. If you are ever nervous about your future, your path in life, or anything, keep your faith in God and believe in yourself. If you ever feel that no one believes in you, then look back on this letter and remember that at least one person in your academic career did believe in you and always will.

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Well it seems he likes you. Why not ask him about the letter?

 

>I've been dropping hints to him about asking me out, but I might need to be more direct.

 

Definitely. I'll never understand the advantage of waiting for a guy you like to ask you. Millions of lost opportunities must happen that way. If you like him, ask him!

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That letter is TOO MUCH. I don't know if I'd unleash that beast or not. Clearly obsessed. I mean, if you are attracted to him and think you could breathe under that microscope and Proustian effusiveness, go for it. My guess, he'll either stay clammed up verbally and not make a move -- or he'll jump in expecting you to stay perfect, to be exclusive and start talking about marriage if he ever takes you on a first date.

 

I mean, I see it as too extreme for me to be comfortable with. But if you want to find out, say, "I'm having a couple people out for drinks Friday, you should come."

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That letter is TOO MUCH. I don't know if I'd unleash that beast or not. Clearly obsessed. I mean, if you are attracted to him and think you could breathe under that microscope and Proustian effusiveness, go for it. My guess, he'll either stay clammed up verbally and not make a move -- or he'll jump in expecting you to stay perfect, to be exclusive and start talking about marriage if he ever takes you on a first date.

 

I mean, I see it as too extreme for me to be comfortable with. But if you want to find out, say, "I'm having a couple people out for drinks Friday, you should come."

 

Well, that is where it gets complicated. In my flirting I decided to lay it on a little heavy. I asked him how many kids he wants, where he sees himself in 5 five years, where he wants to live, etc. The week before, I told him I was looking for jobs in the city where he was looking to work and I was showing him apartments. I even started using "we" and "our" in conversation just so he could envision us as a couple. I wanted him to get a hint! Clearly, I have been on his mind. He has been very respectful. I gave him my number, email, and everything and he only texts me or calls when I state that I need help with something or want to talk.

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Some younger guys are painfully shy.

 

If you want to see if there's something here be direct.

 

He didn't write that letter for nothing.

 

Maybe ask him out to lunch, etc.

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Yeah, you let him know you like him. So probably now he's written 3 pages of effusiveness, you should try to get him to go out, but only you know if he's social enough for that.

 

I would just point out that he had 3 pages of text and nowhere in there did he ask you on a date. So looks like it's up to you. So clearly, you are interested, so let's get to the bottom of it. Ask him out. Don't take him anywhere expensive because you don't want money to be an issue. Either ask him for a drink (you're buying) or a coffee or ice cream. That's it. Say, "That was a nice letter. Would you like to go have ice cream on Saturday?"

 

Let us know what happens. I can't explain why he hasn't ever asked you out and his first venture out of the barn is this huge strange proclamation. Like why hasn't he just said, "Let's go have a drink"? Anyway, directly ask him out and see what happens. I assume you already know he's not married or taken, of course. If he is, that would explain. Or if he's gay.

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Yeah, you let him know you like him. So probably now he's written 3 pages of effusiveness, you should try to get him to go out, but only you know if he's social enough for that.

 

I would just point out that he had 3 pages of text and nowhere in there did he ask you on a date. So looks like it's up to you. So clearly, you are interested, so let's get to the bottom of it. Ask him out. Don't take him anywhere expensive because you don't want money to be an issue. Either ask him for a drink (you're buying) or a coffee or ice cream. That's it. Say, "That was a nice letter. Would you like to go have ice cream on Saturday?"

 

Let us know what happens. I can't explain why he hasn't ever asked you out and his first venture out of the barn is this huge strange proclamation. Like why hasn't he just said, "Let's go have a drink"? Anyway, directly ask him out and see what happens. I assume you already know he's not married or taken, of course. If he is, that would explain. Or if he's gay.

 

Well, here is the other complication. I may have been playing hard to get at times to see if he had feelings for me. He has been asking if I had a boyfriend because I flirted with one of our other classmates right in front of him. I mean, he did write that he wanted to ask me out on a date, but he did not know my feelings or if I was taken.

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Well, here is the other complication. I may have been playing hard to get at times to see if he had feelings for me. He has been asking if I had a boyfriend because I flirted with one of our other classmates right in front of him. I mean, he did write that he wanted to ask me out on a date, but he did not know my feelings or if I was taken.

 

That probably didn't help much. For me it would be a turnoff or at least cause a pause or hesitation.

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Well, here is the other complication. I may have been playing hard to get at times to see if he had feelings for me. He has been asking if I had a boyfriend because I flirted with one of our other classmates right in front of him. I mean, he did write that he wanted to ask me out on a date, but he did not know my feelings or if I was taken.

 

When you get older you'll realize how silly these kinds of games are. They almost always backfire and typically elicit the opposite reaction than the one you were hoping for. Doing stuff like this is probably one of the reasons he never made his move. He dropped enough hints in War and Peace up there to show that he clearly likes you so you make the next move and don't keep waiting around for him to or it may never happen.

 

You've got this. Now go make it happen. ;)

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That probably didn't help much. For me it would be a turnoff or at least cause a pause or hesitation.

 

Yeah. A mutual friend said he felt strange giving it in the first place, but he said he thought I was mad at him for something. I do not why he thought that, but it would explain why he seemed to be walking on eggshells. He said he did not want to hit on another man's woman like a creep. Before that, he told me he has always had a crush on me to my face with no hesitation and he looked me straight in the eye when he said it. I hesitated in my response because I was not expecting him to be so straightforward. He gave me the letter later on that day and he put it right in my hands.

 

I think this is the only time he has gone overboard because he is usually very reserved.

 

I do not know if his part about going for a run or grabbing some tea together was a friendly invite or something more. I mean, it has to be more than friendly when a guy wants to take you to your house and care for you when you have a little cold, right? He called me everyday to check up on me and said I looked beautiful when I was sick.

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Yeah. A mutual friend said he felt strange giving it in the first place, but he said he thought I was mad at him for something. I do not why he thought that, but it would explain why he seemed to be walking on eggshells. He said he did not want to hit on another man's woman like a creep. Before that, he told me he has always had a crush on me to my face with no hesitation and he looked me straight in the eye when he said it. I hesitated in my response because I was not expecting him to be so straightforward. He gave me the letter later on that day and he put it right in my hands.

 

I think this is the only time he has gone overboard because he is usually very reserved.

 

I do not know if his part about going for a run or grabbing some tea together was a friendly invite or something more. I mean, it has to be more than friendly when a guy wants to take you to your house and care for you when you have a little cold, right? He called me everyday to check up on me and said I looked beautiful when I was sick.

 

OH he's smitten alright. Some are just to backward. Give him a push

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"you asked me to proofread some of your work and I felt honored that someone as smart as you would ask a lowly person like me to suggest corrections to your work"

 

from his letter

 

such a LOL moment :)

 

seems he's a comedian as well.

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This guy is all over the place. If you like him, make it known and save him from himself.

 

Now, why did I feel compelled to write this? As you know, I am not a person of many words.

 

Seriously!?

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This guy is all over the place. If you like him, make it known and save him from himself.

 

 

 

Seriously!?

 

Haha. In person, he is super quiet.

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"you asked me to proofread some of your work and I felt honored that someone as smart as you would ask a lowly person like me to suggest corrections to your work"

 

from his letter

 

such a LOL moment :)

 

seems he's a comedian as well.

 

I asked him to proofread to be one on one with him! Lol.

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I cannot help, but admit that there were so many times during this last semester where thoughts of you raced through my mind. In fact, I admit that I may have held a crush on you, still have one and probably always will, but I thought making that known to you would have negatively impacted our group project. In fact, I would be lying if I said that I did not fantasize and possibly still fantasize about us going out, developing a relationship, embracing each other on the day of graduation, and possibly being together. In fact, part of me will always hope that if you were to be single, that I could be there on your wing. In fact, as a side note, some people always thought there was something marginally romantic between us during the Chinese film class and they would mention it to me frequently, but I would keep this thought in the back of my mind "If only I could be so lucky."

 

This sounded pretty candid, but when he said "fantasize" I did not know how to take it.

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For these kind of guys, you need to tell them that “you like like them”. No, that’s not a typo, one like will not suffice.

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For these kind of guys, you need to tell them that “you like like them”. No, that’s not a typo, one like will not suffice.

 

But that’s his problem. Is he 6 years old?

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But that’s his problem. Is he 6 years old?

 

Oh I agree. But what to do? OP likes him and he won’t get it unless it’s spelled out.

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Oh I agree. But what to do? OP likes him and he won’t get it unless it’s spelled out.

 

Well, as I did mention in another post, I might have played hard to get a little too much. I flirted with another guy in class right in front of him and the other guy took it a little further and said we went out on a date. I remember he refused to look at me that day afterwards, but I made sure to reject the other guy so he would know it was not true.

 

Also, when he compliments me, I kinda do not reciprocate or return them in front of others. I just do not know how to handle it in front of others. That may explain why he thought he was creepy with his compliments.

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Well, as I did mention in another post, I might have played hard to get a little too much. I flirted with another guy in class right in front of him and the other guy took it a little further and said we went out on a date. I remember he refused to look at me that day afterwards, but I made sure to reject the other guy so he would know it was not true.

 

Also, when he compliments me, I kinda do not reciprocate or return them in front of others. I just do not know how to handle it in front of others. That may explain why he thought he was creepy with his compliments.

 

You’re torturing the poor guy :lmao: What did you say in response to his letter?

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You’re torturing the poor guy :lmao: What did you say in response to his letter?

 

I don't know what to say! I think he'll think I'm toying with him! I want to say thank you, but would it be wrong to say "I like you too"? My mother says I'll be giving away all of my power if I say that and he needs to chase me...but that is her opinion.

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I don't know what to say! I think he'll think I'm toying with him! I want to say thank you, but would it be wrong to say "I like you too"? My mother says I'll be giving away all of my power if I say that and he needs to chase me...but that is her opinion.

 

You’ve made the poor guy run to the moon and back! How much more chasing do you need? Yes, tell him you like him but please add a little bit more. His letter was longer than War and Peace lol

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You’ve made the poor guy run to the moon and back! How much more chasing do you need? Yes, tell him you like him but please add a little bit more. His letter was longer than War and Peace lol

 

I know. How should I respond? Email, text, call him, or wait until I see him tomorrow at a school function?

 

My mother is literally telling me to not tell him anything, but just flirt with him a little more than usual. I think he might just interpret that as toying with him if I do that. He already said he has a crush on me and he would always welcome my feelings, so I just want to say something like that in return.

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"you asked me to proofread some of your work and I felt honored that someone as smart as you would ask a lowly person like me to suggest corrections to your work"

 

from his letter

 

such a LOL moment :)

 

seems he's a comedian as well.

 

Lol. The funny part is that he says he is "lowly", but he is actually super smart, has the top GPA in his class, speaks 4 languages, he is a talented writer, and he is pilot. Plus, he is actually a bit of a comedian, too. The problem is that I think he has never dated. Lol.

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