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Friends and Lovers Progressing into "Friends with benefits" and beyond: When platonic relationships become more intimate.

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Old 1st December 2017, 4:58 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by CautiouslyOptimistic View Post
I misunderstood and thought you meant a note on her car.

I used to live in a large apartment complex and would have felt really uncomfortable if someone I'd only met once put a note on my door.
Exactly, especially if she is living alone..
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Old 1st December 2017, 5:36 PM   #17
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How did you find out which unit she lives in? Unless you met her right outside her door or she mentioned it during your conversation, she’s going to be extremely creeped out if you leave a note on her door.

Since you often see her getting out of her car, I think you should say hi the next time you see her. If she smiles and says hi back, go up to her and start a conversation and ask for her number before you leave. If she doesn’t give it to you or you lose your nerve and don’t ask her for it, leave her alone.
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Old 28th December 2017, 3:58 PM   #18
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You should get on and see if your area has that forum going. You put in your location and it sees if it's already in existence. Then once you join, if you know her name, you can see if she's on there. It's not a dating thing. It's a neighbors thing. If she is on there, you can reply to some posts and see if she's active or make a post about something that happens at the apts. or you can PM her there.
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