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Friends and Lovers Progressing into "Friends with benefits" and beyond: When platonic relationships become more intimate.

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Old 2nd November 2017, 7:13 PM   #1
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Was this too forward?

We were texting last night.

She told me she was really tired after revising all day for an exam and she said “I’m dreaming of sleeping in bed ”. I quickly told her “with me ” and she said “Ooh you naughty boy” with a lol emoticon and a (possibly embarrassed) one.

Was she embarrassed or does she have the hots for me too?

I told her my bed was big enough for us both and she replied “hmm it’s going to be hard to fit our 2 butts in it”
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Old 2nd November 2017, 8:47 PM   #2
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So is this your girlfriend, some girl you know, somebody else's girlfriend or wife or ??

Perhaps generational but I save such sexual flirting for in-person. Why? Well, to me, it's more fun that way.
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Old 3rd November 2017, 10:20 AM   #3
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It was forward but not too forward. It was flirty. Stop overthinking it. If she responded without the emoji or abruptly ended the conversation I'd worry that you offended her. Just carry on.

Ask her out already, though.
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