FaithInTheDark Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 I was hanging out with a man I liked for two months and we also slept together twice. He couldn't perform in bed and expressed his embarrassment. But during the time totally showed signs that he liked me. Calling me everyday, giving me compliments. , sleeping with me, told me how stoked he felt when I said I missed him. I know he's a good man and always took responsibility when he did things I didn't like. I felt like I wasn't into him anymore and saw no potential. So last time I saw him he bagged me to come see him for the thrid night in a row. And told me how important it was to him. I figured maybe we could just keep it casual. So I went over there and was in the mood for fun but when I decided to make a move he didn't want to kiss or touch or anything. I felt so confused so just asked him why he didn't want to be intimate with me. He said he wanted to just be my friend and thinks I'm awesome. But I'm confused why would you sleep with a girl and invite her over late at night to hang out if u just want to be friends? I accepted this so decided to distance myself because I do admit I did like him a bit. But still after this discussion he's literally calling me over and over , texting asking to spend time every single night. I'd like to be his friend but I don't get it. What makes a guy turn off fm wanting to be hooking up,do u think he's embarrassed cus he can't perform sexually? I want to be his friend but need to keep my distance Wtf is going thru this guys head? Link to post Share on other sites
Lani Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Maybe he has herpes. He didn't want to tell you, so told you he just wants to be friends. Now the herp is gone and he's calling you a bunch because he's ready to bang again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 You're an idiot Link to post Share on other sites
Lani Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 You're an idiot Well yeah... obviously. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 He obviously has some kind of a sexual dysfunction, to me it would be a dealbreaker that he isn't seeking professional help to fix it. Maybe it can't be fixed but there is something. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 He's impotent. He might perform some or with some people and not others. But he doesn't want to embarrass himself anymore. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 Fair enough Link to post Share on other sites
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