rm31 Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 Please help me. I’m a woman and my girlfriend and I have been together for over 10 years, with the last 2 living apart. The last 2 years have been difficult and heart wrenching for us. She has come to conclusions this last year and wants us to be together and marry. Over the summer, I realized that I’m no longer in love with her the same way I was. She’s my best friend & family and neither one of us have really any family due to tragic situations. She’s devastated and I’m having a hard time being strong. She called off work and isn’t doing well. I feel horrible. I know she deserves to be loved the way she loves. She’s wonderful and all we know is each other. She’s not strong and I don’t know what to do. I’ve already called her twice and I’m worried. Sorry I’m all over the place, but I’m so distraught. I've never "broken up" with anyone or anyone w/me. Thanks so much for taking the time to read this. Link to post Share on other sites
mozemate Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 Oh...sounds horrible Unfortunately if you keep contacting her it may give her false hope that you want to be with her maybe? On the other hand if your genuinally worried about her, why not just send an email or something explaining your reasons and the lovely things you have said on LS?. I'm sure she'll get through it, but you must be careful she doesn't assume you mean 'more' than you do! I feel for you, really do, just be there for her when/if she hits rock bottom, otherwise, give her time and space to deal with her own emotions....just my opnion though. Kx Link to post Share on other sites
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